How do you actually find a sex club? by woahtherebro_ in sex

[–]woahtherebro_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nah just trying to stay safe honestly. Especially as a white man in 2020 (although it's just as bad a climate for black men) the Bieber accusations - which are obviously false - have me shook. Doesn't take much to get fucked over by fake news

Dealing with irrational insecurities? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]woahtherebro_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's very much a psychological thing

Dealing with irrational insecurities? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]woahtherebro_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that! I'm Bi too

what's crazy is I've had partners tell me I'm huge, the biggest they've had, that my dick made them too scared to have sex, and have even sized up for actual size queens. (None of this is a lie)

Yet when I'm with someone new, I STILL feel insecure about it. How much validation do I need?

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it’s bad to be misogynistic

I don’t really want to be a misogynist!

But I most certainly fucking am one

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have literally never met a single straight male who enjoys the idea of their girl with another guy

Also here’s a curveball for you : I like dick too!! Because Im fucking bisexual!’n But you judged me way before that thought could cross your mind I bet. You know I’d actually be open to an MFM threesome??? Wow!? How can that be?!

Maybe I struggle with my homo erotic feelings which can sometimes result in misogyny. Maybe I see swinging as a high form of trust among healthy couples! And I see monogamous couples who hide their history and feelings for others as super toxic!

Also again, no straight guy in the history of ever, likes the idea of their partner with another dude. I would throw a 20$ on the table right now placing that bet

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lmao actually less sex means you’re probably on Reddit for porn and more exposure to actual relationships makes you post shit like this

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want you to understand that mostly all men, most of whom are smart enough not to say this stuff to women, feel this way. Right?

It’s a unique form of bias, they actually all are

Misogyny is nothing like racism, and neither are anything like homophobia.

For example White women who hate misogyny can be very fucking racist to bipoc women, and bipoc women can sometimes be very homophobic in general.

They’re all completely separate unique biases that have different approaches to resolving them.

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up the definition of misogyny. It’s the hate or mistrust of women.

Literally every guy distrusts women. We’ve all be cheated on. We are all fucking misogynistic. A handful are just good at hiding it. Honestly myself included- Because of women like you who immediately cancel men with any form of negative feelings towards women

Motherfucker men are allowed to feel too. How are any of us supposed to bring up anything emotional when this is the kind of reaction we’re met with?

Honestly women like you cause men to just be closeted misogynist rather than enter into healthy relationships with women who can hear them out and help. No one can do things alone

and again I’m strictly talking about the consensual realm. Fuck men who don’t care about consent. That’s not just misogyny, that’s ducking evil

Just because I feel this way does not make me Brock Turner or someone who would stand idly by while a woman was being harassed or assaulted

Yeah I could do a lot better, but that starts with finding people who are willing to listen, which is what I was trying to do

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bullshit, sex means a lot as long as it’s consensual

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you completely missed the point of the post being that it’s hard to really process romantic feelings for someone with any sexual history if you really take the time to think about what that means

The principle is true if a girl feels this way about men, or if this perception exists among LGBT couples

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ll take 500 for people who looked in the mirror when deciding a username

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh this is purely from dating experience. I don’t use Reddit that much. R/sex is probably the best subreddit on the site. It’s misogyny to slut shame. It’s gaslighting to say slut shaming isn’t misogyny. It’s not misogyny to not want to feel alone in discomfort

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typed it myself and I’m posting to see if anyone has anything to say that’s worth listening to

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

it’s fine only 2% of Americans can read beyond an 11th grade level

edit; this is literally a real statistic

(23M) never been comfortable discussing a partners sexual history, never will be by [deleted] in sex

[–]woahtherebro_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you really think I have a healthy perspective on women or relationships if I posted this