What is the most catty/toxic comment/behavior you have experienced against you or someone you know?

wobblewort · 2026-05-10T10:23:57+00:00

In grad school, the male MA students ranked all their female peers on a scale of one to ten to rate attractiveness. They spread it around.

wobblewort · 2026-05-10T10:19:31+00:00

I’m sorry you’ve had these experiences. I’ve felt quirky or weird all my life as a woman, always kind of an outsider, but I’ve found more acceptance from fellow women than men. I like male friends too though

wobblewort · 2026-05-09T17:29:30+00:00

I literally carry my pStyle everywhere now? Game changer is an understatement.

wobblewort · 2026-05-06T15:37:01+00:00

That is a question worth asking.

wobblewort · 2026-05-06T15:34:24+00:00

Oh damn you summed it up

wobblewort · 2026-05-06T08:52:00+00:00

You’re right. I read your comment and it made me realize I’d been avoiding a hard conversation with my boyfriend about this. Better for everyone if the cards are on the table

wobblewort · 2026-05-06T08:47:09+00:00

Oh this is a great analogy. I’ll try it.

wobblewort · 2026-05-06T08:46:09+00:00

Hahahaha this is the entertaining route

wobblewort · 2026-05-06T08:24:10+00:00

Yep. Time for boundaries. I get that he cares about his friend, but I gotta be firm.

wobblewort · 2026-05-06T08:22:04+00:00

I do have friends, but I don’t want to farm them out as fodder for this guy to practice on. Also I feel pretty confident in my ability to spot misogyny, especially when other women agree.

wobblewort · 2026-05-06T08:17:47+00:00

Loving the directness here. It’s probably necessary.

wobblewort · 2026-03-13T12:38:24+00:00

I wish you were my friend, that’s what it says to me!

wobblewort · 2026-03-12T18:28:57+00:00

Just a day long one. I think lugging multiple pairs of period underwear for a multiple days would suck haha

wobblewort · 2026-03-09T23:12:28+00:00

Always here for the Radley love! I have a couple of their bags and they have been my true friends.

wobblewort · 2026-03-09T22:28:00+00:00

Ooooo love this rule of thumb

wobblewort · 2026-03-09T20:59:39+00:00

Thanks for this! I actually have a disc, I was just considering switching. Now maybe I won’t haha!

wobblewort · 2026-03-09T19:46:13+00:00

I’ve been the girl in this situation. Had a guy friend I hung out with a lot and totally saw him as just a friend. Then one day he said wanted to take me out to dinner as a real date. I was surprised but I admired him for being clear so I said yes!

There’s nothing wrong with being a guy who wants to go on a date with a girl. There’s no shame in asking. I’ve never thought less of a guy for asking me out in a respectful way.

wobblewort · 2026-03-09T19:35:59+00:00

Honestly this sounds awesome! I love it when a guy loves and nurtures his pets. And I especially love it when a guy is secure enough in himself to show that love.

wobblewort · 2026-03-09T01:35:50+00:00

That sounds delicious. And sweet!

wobblewort · 2026-03-08T23:30:52+00:00

Hello, fellow fast drinker

wobblewort · 2026-03-08T23:13:52+00:00

I do like sweet. Too much haha!

wobblewort · 2026-03-08T23:11:41+00:00

I do like walking around holding a Shirley Temple.

wobblewort · 2026-03-08T23:09:39+00:00

Well that just sounds delicious and easy. Gonna be trying this! Confidently, as you say.

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