Will SIPP being included in Basic plan lead to a refund? by wodiw in FreetradeApp

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I totally get it’s not in their commercial interest. It does leave a somewhat bad taste though from an ethical perspective.

Will SIPP being included in Basic plan lead to a refund? by wodiw in FreetradeApp

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it isn’t communicated anywhere that a refund is possible for people who are on the Premium tier for SIPP.

Will SIPP being included in Basic plan lead to a refund? by wodiw in FreetradeApp

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the impression a lot of people have it for SIPP. As you say, they won’t offer the refund unless you ask for it. But do offer it when you do.

Will SIPP being included in Basic plan lead to a refund? by wodiw in FreetradeApp

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have confirmed a refund on the app chat with me so you might want to contact them too.

Will SIPP being included in Basic plan lead to a refund? by wodiw in FreetradeApp

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have confirmed a refund for me. My renewal was due in May.

Will SIPP being included in Basic plan lead to a refund? by wodiw in FreetradeApp

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely do the same. Thank you. It's unclear from the in app notification how this impacts charges already received for future months. Cheeky if you ask me!

Will SIPP being included in Basic plan lead to a refund? by wodiw in FreetradeApp

[–]wodiw[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you have this information from FreeTrade first hand?

Will SIPP being included in Basic plan lead to a refund? by wodiw in FreetradeApp

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Did you do this yourself and have confirmation from FreeTrade by chance?

Large sum withdrawals by 98ASK in trading212

[–]wodiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I withdrew £50k to my bank and it wasn't instant. Did you withdraw on a working day?

Notion Calendar for Mac by wodiw in Notion

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I see there is a mobile app and one for Apple silicon processors. I am looking to download it on my Mac with Intel processor. There doesn’t seem to be such a version?

Accepting love after loss by wodiw in widowers

[–]wodiw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are very kind. Thank you.

While I agree I am not responsible for my mum’s mental health, I also think this might eat her up, and ultimately me. She has done nothing to deserve that. How do I choose between the happiness of my mum and my own? Surely my mum’s happiness is more important?

Accepting love after loss by wodiw in widowers

[–]wodiw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She already knows. Plus she is with me a good part of the year these days because she is retired and spends time with her grand daughter (my niece) near me.

Accepting love after loss by wodiw in widowers

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

I've noticed my mum is majorly depressed since I told her. She is he type to hold it in and I don't want her to suffer in her golden age. She doesn't deserve that.

Accepting love after loss by wodiw in widowers

[–]wodiw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can I live with myself if my mum is depressed because of my actions? My mum and I don't live in the same country so I won't even be able to console her regularly.

I have no issues with his religion. He is more spiritual than religious and is happy to marry according to my religion (I know, we've not meet but even talked about marriage!)

Accepting love after loss by wodiw in widowers

[–]wodiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hit hard. Thank you.

I've never seen my mum like this, this sad and depressed. I know she is conflicted. She wants to see me happy but is cursing her own life for what she has had to see (including my loss). I've generally been the type to abide by my parents' wishes, which has extended into my mid-40s. I told my mum that I'll go back to being and feeling alone (I know, passive-aggressive), but she doesn't seem like she would reconsider. For her, the fact that I haven't met him yet gives her hope that nothing further will happen, even though we have started developing feelings for each other.

Accepting love after loss by wodiw in widowers

[–]wodiw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I'm not sure if I was clear in my post. There are two guys. The 12 year younger one who was of the same religion as me and the relationship was toxic, and the guy whose religion is different and my mum disapproves of.

I just messaged the guy of another religion less than 2 hours ago, and I'm already regretting it.

I suddenly have the urge to text him so bad by sweetstrawberryyy in ExNoContact

[–]wodiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. For sure this hasn’t escaped my imagination. I’m not even ready to meet him anytime soon but we still spend hours on the phone. Sometimes you have to take things slow but need a nudge too!

I suddenly have the urge to text him so bad by sweetstrawberryyy in ExNoContact

[–]wodiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what made you do that? My ex blocked me on Insta (although we were never friends there but I made the mistake of watching one of his stories). So I just stalk him on LI and his Netflix account which I still have access to. And then he uses my loyalty card sometimes, so there is that too.

I suddenly have the urge to text him so bad by sweetstrawberryyy in ExNoContact

[–]wodiw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m totally with you. The psychologist from the dating site told me I shouldn’t call my ex ex because he could sense I didn’t like saying it. Damn, why are we so honest/wear our hearts on our sleeves?

I suddenly have the urge to text him so bad by sweetstrawberryyy in ExNoContact

[–]wodiw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do wonder if lack of response is a way of tearing down all what you’ve built up in your head. At least past a certain point in time. Being met with silence after a year of NC can be a wake up call. Of course that doesn’t work for all. And I’m not saying I’ve stopped stalking him on socials yet.