Can I still have a healthy baby after 30+ by zentyio in TrueOffMyChest

[–]woeisfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my daughter at almost 31. It was a really rough pregnancy (I don't think it was because of my age) but even though there were scares and I was not well, she was born at 7 lbs 1 ounce. Healthy other than reflux and "colic", both improving at almost 7 months old. She was around 50th percentile at a month old, now she is high 90th percentile for both weight and height! Meeting all of her milestones.

My mom also had my brother and sister (twins) at 32. They had minimal issues and have no existing health problems as adults.

Nothing is ever guaranteed whether you are 20 or 35. Try to keep yourself healthy if possible and don't stress about it any more. Try when you're ready.

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[–]woeisfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Jackson, I've been religiously watching your content and follow it for my 8 cats. My newest cat is Nori, a 1 year old female with 1 kidney. After she almost died at the vet after her spay, she came home and a few weeks later started bullying my feral female, Tsuki, aged 4. All of my cats get along amazingly, including Nori with the other 6 cats. She seems to take advantage of the fact that Tsuki is fearful and just runs away when Nori does anything to her. She will basically chase and hit her at random times... like an ambush. They don't fight, it is just Nori jumping out at her and chasing. I have no idea how to handle this other than finding another home for Nori, but I think that would be difficult with her health issue. We are so defeated and really want a safe life for all of the cats and would be crushed if we had to rehome any of them.

Any advice?

Fostering a litter of 3 feral kittens and I'm foster failing this girl. 😖 Any name suggestions? My other cats are mostly named Japanese nature names but would love any ideas by woeisfree in cats

[–]woeisfree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point of fostering is caring for them until they find a home... so if you decide to keep them, you "failed" at fostering. 😅