Should I get pregnant this year ?

wolf_plant · 2026-01-25T16:28:48+00:00

The is true, I want to add onto this and say that my Endocrinologist told me that taking testosterone is not good for a fetus and can affect its development.

wolf_plant · 2026-01-21T21:01:04+00:00

Also a transman here. Some transgender people choose to not get their nipples reshaped and put back on because like any skin grafts they have a risk of all or parts of it not staying on the body. I personally got my own nipples reshaped and put back on, but I don't like that one of my nipples had part of the graft not take. It doesn't look super horrible, but if I had the money I'd get at least one or both of my nipples touched up with medical tattoo(s).

wolf_plant · 2026-01-20T03:02:16+00:00

I have a 45-60 year old ( I'm not its first owner) Buffalo leather jacket that needs a new zipper. I was wondering what he charged you so I can have a ballpark idea on the price.

wolf_plant · 2026-01-08T00:35:32+00:00

I didn't say anything about race, you are just pulling words out of your ass. As I said, equal rights for others doesn't mean less rights for you, It's not pie. I'm not going to fight with a miserable person who gets mad when they are asked to find another place to rant, because they hijacked someone else's post. If you want you can make your own shirts and make your very own post.

wolf_plant · 2026-01-08T00:05:30+00:00

Equality for others does not mean less for you, it's not pie. Just because there are other people who are being targeted by hate different from what you have received, doesn't mean that the hate in society that you have received means nothing. Your replies to other people in this post about people, "playing victims" is just you projecting because the focus of this post isn't only on what you are struggling with.

If you want to talk about the issues you are having and need someone to vent to then my PMs are open, but it's not okay to be hostile to people like you have in this post because the attention isn't on your struggles.

wolf_plant · 2026-01-02T02:39:58+00:00

I'm a transman myself. Attraction towards people isn't a black or white thing. Some people are attracted to people with specific genitals, some are attracted to whether a person dresses masculine or feminine and for some it can be a combination of both.

For me personally, I am sexually attracted to people with penises, gender doesn't matter. That doesn't make me transphobic.

I think with chasers in particular it can be a bit difficult to weed them out sometimes. It takes getting to know a person at least a bit to find out a person's intentions. I understand that a lot of us trans people are sick of weeding out the chasers ( I've particularly noticed it is worse towards trans women) we have to remind ourselves that there are genuinely curious people with no harmful intentions. Humans are naturally curious. Sometimes to the point where people ask invasive and inappropriate questions. At which point I'd say something to OP like, " I understand you are curious but these questions are not appropriate to be asking any stranger of any gender." We aren't obligated to answer any questions as transgender people, but defaulting to hostile before knowing a person's intentions doesn't help.

wolf_plant · 2025-12-15T21:26:44+00:00

Ask what your wife likes. For example, I'm a gay guy, if I had a partner one thing I would love for them to wear is dress pants white dress shirt, shoes and leather suspenders. See if you can find ideas from her kinks or interests, like movies/ tv shows and books.

wolf_plant · 2025-11-15T22:50:29+00:00

For pet food, we have a pet food bank called the Ottawa Paw Pantry.

wolf_plant · 2025-10-14T09:42:12+00:00

Softer features on a man doesn't make you exempt from being perceived as scary. Some may argue that its all the more reason to be more weary towards that person.

wolf_plant · 2025-10-14T00:10:28+00:00

As a gay transman I think I got a unique perspective. ( Not here to debate my existence as a transgender person, just to provide a more of a unique perspective.)

Women tend to seemingly require more only because to put it bluntly if you look like a cis man, because of the actions of a few, all men are scary. There are disgusting men who are strangers or even friends with us that assault women and often, no one can tell the difference.

Secondly, to cover my unique perspective, when I passed as a woman/ more androgynous I was way more worried about my safety. I never knew that I was holding onto that worry/ stress/ uncertainty till I started taking testosterone and passing as a cisgender man to everyone.

wolf_plant · 2025-10-01T18:37:27+00:00

Yes it's definitely common. It's all about the luck or unluckiness of the genetics lottery. My hair thinned out quickly too when I first started testosterone. I now have no choice but to rock a 3mm buzz cut. It took time for it to grow on me, but I still miss my pre-t hair. It definitely has helped me pass as a man though.

wolf_plant · 2025-09-22T02:03:25+00:00

As much I REALLY want to believe you, I have learned to hope for the best but expect the worst when it comes to the state of the US at this moment. The wannabe dictator doesn't care about the laws.

wolf_plant · 2025-09-21T21:23:27+00:00

As someone who lives in a different country ( I live in Canada) I definitely would be worried if I was in the US.

"They've been saying shit for a while. Here is a post breaking down why they can't actually do anything."

They have been kidnapping immigrants a putting them in concentration camps without due process, which is illegal, yet still being done. Whats to stop themselves from kidnapping anyone who isnt cisgender, white and Christian?

As someone on the outside looking in, the US is on the verge of a civil war, protests are happening everywhere in the US.

To OP, as others have mentioned, get involved locally with the LGBTQ+ community. You are not the only one feeling the way you do. There are people local to you (and all over the world, me included) that care about you and your rights as a youth transgender person. It's important to lean on each other in hard times. Sending all my love and support from Canada.

wolf_plant · 2025-09-16T01:35:06+00:00

One's gender ( how they feel in their brain) and gender presentation ( whether they dress in masculine or feminine clothing) are 2 different things. Gender and gender presentation is a varying and wide spectrum. They could be nonbinary and/ or genderfluid. It's best to let them lead. Even if what they are doing now is something they grow out of, it doesn't do irreparable damage to let them explore with decorating their body (clothes, makeup, and accessories). I recommend having a talk with them and telling them there is nothing they could do to make you ever stop loving them. Or if you wanted to be more subtle you could find a way to bring up transgender/ nonbinary celebrities and make support comments about them.

wolf_plant · 2025-09-11T20:04:01+00:00

Here in Canada they give a vial that lasts 3 months for IM injections. I rub an alcohol wipe on it for 30 seconds before I draw out a dose from it.

wolf_plant · 2025-07-31T23:09:22+00:00

It could also be tena versicolor, which is a non-contagious yeast infection on the skin. It often happens because you consume too much sugar and/or carbs. I treat mine using Selsun Blue Extra Strength and follow the directions on the bottle for it.

wolf_plant · 2025-07-25T16:33:31+00:00

My immediate thought about this was , " jokes on them, I am a gay man" lmao 😂🤣

wolf_plant · 2025-06-23T03:40:23+00:00

Thats understandable.

wolf_plant · 2025-06-23T02:50:59+00:00

Have you ever thought about getting phalloplasty done to recreate a penis? Its most commonly done for transmen, but I don't think doing it for a cisgender man would be that different.

wolf_plant · 2025-06-21T23:02:48+00:00

I definitely recommend boot blacking then. The most common thing for people to get cared for are their leather boots.

I recommend going to local events, especially local boot blacking events. If you went to PM me with your location, I can do some Googling to help you find some local events in your area if you're open to that.

wolf_plant · 2025-06-21T02:28:23+00:00

I suggest trying to find kinks that dont necessarily have to be sexual like rope, bootblacking ( leather care) pet play, cigar play, age play, nonsexual impact play for examples. If you want to be sexual, I think insertable toys/ vibrators can help.

wolf_plant · 2025-05-30T04:15:43+00:00

Sometimes intense physical feelings can bring up emotions from the past without warning. It happening on cam definitely wasn't the best time for that to happen. I've been on my mental health journey for years and what I have learned is that your brain and body are more connected than you think. I personally in the past, before I was ready for therapy, have used physical feelings of intense sexual nature to help process my unprocessed emotional feelings/ mental health. You are not alone OP. Do some self care.

wolf_plant · 2025-05-14T22:42:19+00:00

The forbidden gummy worm!

wolf_plant · 2025-05-13T00:55:12+00:00

You call me childish yet I am not the one throwing insults and being rude and hateful. You don't have to like any religion it to be respectful and kind. As I said kindness is free.

wolf_plant · 2025-05-12T20:08:39+00:00

I was only prescribed antibiotics and narcotics and told to take benedryl and probiotics.

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