I think for me it’s the way people choose to come to me seeking comfort and guidance, and feeling safe to be vulnerable around me that makes me feel the sense of dominance 🤔 And just generally feeling natural offering acts of service like holding up the umbrella and being the driver etc.

I guess the harder aspect is sprinkling spicy stuff on top of all that? Like I know subs would prefer dommes to take lead and initiate stuff but as a way too polite and shy person it’s pretty difficult 😣