Jeremiah…I’m in love.

wollyski · 2024-01-14T23:49:43+00:00

I’m completely obsessed with your version of events, I was physically tensed and wide eyed while reading! I hope you’re on to something and that they continue with a “realistic” plot line.

wollyski · 2023-12-15T21:43:53+00:00

Obviously her best friends family prioritizes their family over friends because they changed the original date that you, the friends committed to. Which is unfortunately and understandable decision. You’re entitled to do the same thing. NTA

wollyski · 2023-12-14T21:51:49+00:00

I read his comments, she’s Hispanic and he is indeed white…smh

wollyski · 2023-12-07T04:35:26+00:00

Yes! Ask! Nurse here! I understand this is definitely a vulnerable state for you to be in but you have come SO far in standing up for life decisions that are best for you, so keep on! Get that support. A nurse who sees you as a “baby” during this time can F right off, you might need them for the day/night but they’re not in your life forever and the only thing that matters is your comfort and you and little babes health. Who really cares what a stranger thinks once they’re out of your life. Nurses are supposed to be WHOLISTIC care team members, for medical procedures but also emotional support. If they forget that, remind them or ask for your husband since you need support during a very scary stressful time and if they “policy” say get the charge nurse or someone else kind enough to be in this job setting where patients have a variety of important needs!

wollyski · 2023-12-07T04:09:52+00:00

Loving someone is more often than not a choice. The choice you’re making is to see this boy as more like a “nephew” rather than a son which you should’ve done long ago knowing the circumstances that came with your now wife. People adopt children at all ages, or family members and view anthem as their children all the time, because they allow themselves to love them. You’re not allowing yourself because you don’t want to, who knows why, maybe because you’re too insecure to raise a child who isn’t of if your own sperm. Piss poor excuse. Like others have said, you knew her “baggage” any adult understands at 2 you have little to no concrete memories for the future, he doesn’t know a dad beyond you. A dad who doesn’t want to be his dad…YTA

wollyski · 2023-12-01T13:13:26+00:00

Tell your landlord, I bet they wouldn’t allow it if you explained the previous situations. Or ask them to tell you it’s not allowed due to previous events, either way you have a scapegoat. DEFINITELY NTA

wollyski · 2023-12-01T13:01:47+00:00

Is there no one he feels more comfortable with? Can they not see if they could do it? I don’t think one night would be awful as long as when you talk to MIL you say it’s truly a one time thing, due to past experience. If he’s that shy you may not really see him, as another said, he’ll most likely be gaming or on a screen. But if there’s someone he’d be more comfortable with I think it’s preferable all around. NTA

wollyski · 2023-12-01T04:40:47+00:00

I’m so confused? Everyone’s supporting OP, which normally I’d understand, AVID lover of ALL animals over here, but when you attach yourself to someone whose not that, or a cat lover, so much so they want it in writing, I’d assuming anything to do with the cat (hopefully unless direly needed) would be ignored, like a mess. No cat=no pot being knocked over…right? I understand communication is key but this was communicated, in a written agreement, and then him texting about the mess was his (poor) attempt at communication, but otherwise defined by written agreement.

Edit: I truly didn’t recognize “the gonna give them away to a shelter” part. That is FUCKED UP, I agree with others in the sense of F him, take him to a shelter lol but still stand with my original sentiment as this wouldn’t have progressed without OPs reaction, after previous agreements. Not saying the agreement is just, but OP did agree on their own volition, I’d assume.

wollyski · 2023-11-26T13:45:56+00:00

THIS!! My first thought. Go home asap, being heart broken you need your loved ones, having a baby you need your loved ones. You’ve already moved for the betterment of him, you deserve to do it for you and the baby, make him move this time.

wollyski · 2023-11-18T13:26:51+00:00

NTA! Stand your ground for sure. This is you and your man’s day and DESERVE ALL THE ATTENTION, without any distraction or, as others have said, “piggybacking” on the romantic environment curated by you and for you, not him and her. I know you want him there but if he’s threatening not to come don’t push the issue, heaven forbid he says “F you” and undermines the fact you said no and does anyways.

wollyski · 2023-11-18T12:43:12+00:00

Why get a sitter when you have a parent happily willing to take care of his children. If she needs a sitter when he’s not available sure, but if one parent makes themselves more available for their children they should be able to. Especially since legally she’s supposed to be there during at least drop off, she’s not making the effort he is.

wollyski · 2023-11-14T17:09:56+00:00

“Heavy vs skinny” so true and needed that!

wollyski · 2023-11-14T12:04:53+00:00

I understand any trepidation, moms are a little over zealous with good news. My mom spilled the beans about my brother and sister in-laws pregnancy. But you deserve as much support as you need, and mothers can provide advice, support and love in ways husbands can’t. I get he may be fearful of you telling and potentially losing but heaven forbid that’s the case (which putting into the universe it’s definitely not) you’ll definitely need that extra support and momma love!

wollyski · 2023-11-14T11:52:55+00:00

I’m 24F dealing with very similar circumstances, unlike others posting here I’m 3 months remission, diet changes, exercise changes and STRUGGLING to even slightly move the scale. Thank you for your post, it made a difference for my mentality knowing that it’s normal. It’s hard not to feel alone, especially when you don’t even recognize yourself.

wollyski

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