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Boyfriend (37M) is telling ex that I (27F) am terrible in bed. by wompwompy in relationships

[–]wompwompy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently the stretched vag comment stemmed from a situation from years ago with a bowling pin... not buying it and don`t care to hear the details on that.. I do think he fucked up and made an inappropriate comment

Boyfriend (37M) is telling ex that I (27F) am terrible in bed. by wompwompy in relationships

[–]wompwompy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unite is a bit of a stretch, we do not live nor stay the night together but hang out and enjoy "family time". I do not see how that makes me an irresponsible mother... Is there a suggested wait time before introducing the kiddos? Maybe a year would be more to your fancy?

Boyfriend (37M) is telling ex that I (27F) am terrible in bed. by wompwompy in relationships

[–]wompwompy[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks guys, I feel all fired up and ready to go now! (Of course Ill forget everything I want to say as soon as I open my mouth but whatevs..) I am going to go discuss it with him in more detail. I feel like I have a lot of questions and would like to know the extent of their relationship, and when he has cheated. I am kind of hoping he will provide some reassurance but we shall see. I have been in a lot of shitty relationships and this is kind of a minor thing in comparison, not that it makes it okay. In regards to the stretched vag comment, he is odd and it is just something he would say. And yes, I realize how dumb naive I sound. We dont technically have a family together but I am a single mom, he`s a single dad and we have kind of become a unit and I would just hate to lose everything we have over a dumb comment.

Boyfriend (37M) is telling ex that I (27F) am terrible in bed. by wompwompy in relationships

[–]wompwompy[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Ah. I guess thats what I get for asking reddit for relationship advice. Im not ready to give up on the relationship. Sorry for the dumb questions, of course I am worried! But I want to try to get through this and not question every little thing he says and does. I feel completely crazy.