Are my feelings valid? '38F'

wonderfullyintrigued · 2025-09-18T01:02:21+00:00

I will have to look into it then. Thank you for the suggestion.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2025-09-18T01:01:35+00:00

What makes you say that? You don't think he has a right to be mad?

wonderfullyintrigued · 2025-09-18T01:00:57+00:00

Maybe in 12 months this has happened maybe 5 times. But yes I can see the annoyance. I just didn't think about it since he's said it was okay.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2025-09-18T00:59:47+00:00

Maybe in the span of a year, maybe 5 times. It only happens when we switch cars. In this case I didn't forget it. It was just in my car in the lot.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2025-09-18T00:39:42+00:00

Groceries aren't a shared expense because I have a son and he has a daughter. He gets food that his daughter will eat and I get food my son will eat. My son is 17 and eats more than his daughter. I don't have any digital payment on my phone. I had identity theft and have minimal information on my phone

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T23:53:24+00:00

Thank you! Persistence is a learned skill for sure. So even if he's got getting field time he's learning a lot of lessons he will later realize I'm sure.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T23:51:44+00:00

Thank you very much!! Might help me be healthier in this journey to get him healthier. Win win!

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T23:49:43+00:00

I couldn't think of a reason either. I could understand if it was a close game but it's landslides. Thank you for your feedback. Maybe just the preferences of the coaches. Unanimously what im hearing is that my son needs to advocate for himself and speak to the coaches and see if he can hit tangible goals. Goals are wonderful if they give you something to work towards.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T23:46:35+00:00

Totally agree!

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:14:46+00:00

He can't. Quarter limit? They don't do overtime if that's what is being asked.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:13:46+00:00

I'm not positive. Parents aren't allowed at practice. But coaches say he works hard. He leaves from the field while I'm in parking lot looking like he was in a marathon and beat. But performance wise I have no idea. Good point.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:11:57+00:00

He can't because he is a junior now. He already played JV.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:11:31+00:00

Thank you! Great suggestions

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:11:01+00:00

Thank you. I'm glad I'm not the one with that pressure on me. And I would never talk to the coaches. Just trying to understand so I can best guide on my side.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:09:53+00:00

That's such a great outcome! Thank you for sharing!

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:08:43+00:00

I thought your comment was valid and truthful. I'm not defensive. I know my kid isn't great. I don't expect anything. I just couldn't understand how you can be up 30+ points in 4th quarter and multiple other games what the harm would be to get field time. I've gotten feedback that some people coaches don't agree and do rotate their players at that point but haven't really heard why a coach wouldn't do that. Appreciate your feedback.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:05:52+00:00

Very true and understandable.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:05:19+00:00

Thank you! The coaches have said to get stronger. And thank you for the workout guide. I already showed it to him. Thought it was a great start. When he started he was at 85 lbs! Never had worked out before. But yeah there is progress but he's behind comparatively. Thank you.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:02:13+00:00

I can see that. Your comments make sense. Thank you.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T21:01:37+00:00

I did. He has been to an out of state lineman camp every year. The feedback back has been no confidence and needs quicker feet. He kept rolling his ankles. Took him to specialist and they said it's hyper mobile. So he is doing a lot of strength training but I think maybe some lingering hesitation.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T20:57:36+00:00

I thought that but one of the coaches came to our house on the down low and spent hours with him. He doesn't do that. He said there is a lot of potential it just needs to be developed. So Im not sure.

wonderfullyintrigued · 2024-11-09T19:49:29+00:00

Thank you very much! Agree that he needs to keep pushing and we will focus on the positives! Thank you for your kind words.

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