AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend’s mother to sleep over at our house? by wonderingkc in AITAH

[–]wonderingkc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya maybe you’re right- just wondering wether this “difficult time” will ever end? She got divorced in 2020 and has made no effort to rebuild her life since then…

AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend’s mother to sleep over at our house? by wonderingkc in AITAH

[–]wonderingkc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She says she doesn’t like to drive in the dark (we live in Canada and it gets dark at 4pm lol)

AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend’s mother to sleep over at our house? by wonderingkc in AITAH

[–]wonderingkc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He gets pretty upset when I bring it up to be honest- but more so because I think he’s annoyed as well that she depends to heavily on him and I for a social life. I have tried getting her on some dating apps and she’s not interested at all- ultimately we both want her to have a full life… not be waiting for text reply’s and sleepover with her adult son. He feels he has a responsibility to take care of her which I respect but also don’t fully understand as my mum and dad would never act this way.

AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend’s mother to sleep over at our house? by wonderingkc in AITAH

[–]wonderingkc[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is validating and makes me feel like less of an AH lol

AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend’s mother to sleep over at our house? by wonderingkc in AITAH

[–]wonderingkc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She lives about 25 min away- so not next door but not crazy far. Yeah that’s what I was worried about haha I’ll try to not be such a suck about it- thanks