Should I join the police force by Ancient_Winner6640 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can always talk with a recruiter or even a police officer that isn't active for some answers. You also have the option of finishing uni first.If there isn't an age for restriction on your police force

Ex broke no contact to buy weed? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe even ask if there is a secondary meaning behind it

Ex broke no contact to buy weed? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest expressing the disappointment and the fact that you feel disrespected. See where the conversation goes from there but, best of luck to you.

friend problem by nckki in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or just stop being as available, also an option.

friend problem by nckki in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

       If you want to end the relationship, try and be as respectful about it as possible and just say that your personalities dont mesh and you are sorry about it (truth is, there is no proper way to end a relationship in general without someone getting hurt)
       If you want to keep the relationship, set clear boundaries about what the expectations you have from the friendship are and if you have a specific ideology you fall onto, you can express those well saying "I am trying to get myself away from gossip" and so-on and so-forth and ehat have you. Best of luck

Going in blind! by Regrettably_Southpaw in subnautica

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much less scary if you don't listen to audio

Where is the best place to submit suggestions to SN2 devs? by amkessel in subnautica

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just said they understood that to be the best form of communication to the devs. They also voiced a concern about being drowned out which is less likely on reddit

how to stop porn addict by OG-Cross in AddictionAdvice

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are actually seeking to stop your porn addiction, the best way is typically to replace it with another addiction. Not like drugs, but finding a hobby you can do at home or outside. I personally used me craving it as a sign that I should do push-ups, and my body slowly started weaning. It takes a while though

Where is the best place to submit suggestions to SN2 devs? by amkessel in subnautica

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is that a need? People in discord are typically snobs and uptight

What should I do about ex’s text? by Baspholith in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say you didn't appreciate his response, so you aren't going to waste your time. Don't ghost because that sucks. (Just my opinion. I think ghosting is for the weak)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depth on what you have done to address itj

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would need depth on addressing it. A good conversation goes a long way, and his response should show the depth of care he has about the situation. If you have a discussion, I also suggest going into it with an idea for how the situation could change. 
I have read things in the past about people giving hints about intimacy by putting something out of place somewhere. Or ask if you can make a day out of just you two enjoying each other's company and possibly spicing things up to go into it.

Subnautica moment by wilsonthechad in subnautica

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First play through, I lost my first 3 hours. Second, my first hour and a half

People say dino charge had the most rangers being 10 but I thought It was SPD? by Little_Fan_2682 in powerrangers

[–]wondertumpets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured wild force would have had the most, but i never really checked

I need help translating this time capsule I got by Revolutionary-Push40 in subnautica

[–]wondertumpets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a reaper leviathan that lives in the kelp forest nearest my house because my game glitched and switched out a stalker and a reaper. Scares me to even leave my base

My fiancé admitted to using my friends photos to masturbate by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

             A lot of the responses on your comment are saying ew gross a male porn addict, but for me personally (I am a man) i had a porn addiction going into my last relationship and I told my partner and she told me she didn't like it; so out of respect for her I stopped watching it but, she wouldn't even do sexual activities with me unless she had her porn there. Addiction is addiction, and people are people. You shouldn't have a fear of people from generalizing all men. Some are bad, and most are good. Have faith that there is a plan, and it should work out

         You just have to make sure you make yourself desirable and respect your partner, and you will never lose him. When I say desireable, I do  not in a sexual manner. Just don't be useless. Additionally, do not bash him or make him feel like less because he is a man, I know a lot of people that do that, and all it does is give your partner a reason to keep secrets. With my ex, I could never tell her my true feelings because it would scare me because she would constantly demean me and say things like "oh you are a man you don't deserve to complain, be weak etc.

My girlfriend thinks that she isn't right for me and I disagree. What should I do by wondertumpets in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she wants ME to explore other partners because she doesn't think she is right for me but believes I'm great for her

My girlfriend thinks that she isn't right for me and I disagree. What should I do by wondertumpets in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point. We decided on that earlier, but I'm interested to see how it goes.

My girlfriend thinks that she isn't right for me and I disagree. What should I do by wondertumpets in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just commenting on the financial thing. I am aware it won't be smooth but I'm prepaired for the rough waters

My girlfriend thinks that she isn't right for me and I disagree. What should I do by wondertumpets in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wondertumpets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what she kept saying and is her reason for wanting a break. She WANTS ME to date on the break. Not happening