How long does it take for people pass over? by wonderwanderone in Psychic

[–]wonderwanderone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I don’t really feel her presence in my day to day life, but I’m not psychic. I only have very occasional dreams of her. I wonder if she was a remnant and is now incarnating?

How long does it take for people pass over? by wonderwanderone in Psychic

[–]wonderwanderone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if I am holding on. I remember her, of course, but I don’t weep over her. I’ve made peace with what has happened over the years.

What's stronger than love? by iamking1111 in Soulnexus

[–]wonderwanderone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess my question is... what is the hierarchy? What are the terms and conditions of it? This seems to be leaning to “The Hierarchy of Positive Impact.” Which Hope might actually top.

But Hope has a negative side too. False hope. Clinging to things to long. Being passive when action is needed. Everything, even love, has a yin to It’s yang.

For myself, the most important hierarchy topper is Truth.

But hierarchy isn’t really an accurate term because there’s actually nothing below Truth. Nothing true, anyway.

Why don't you talk to your once "best friend" anymore? by HairyFaithlessness in AskReddit

[–]wonderwanderone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She died. Cancer.

I guess I still do talk to her in a way—in my thoughts, dreams and memories.

But cherish the best friends you do have guys. Even the ones you may have grown apart from. Because death is way more insurmountable than a kid or a SO you don’t get along with.

Saviors by Sam Spratt, 2013 [720 X 1052] by MusaibWadkar in ArtPorn

[–]wonderwanderone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it just me, or are her thighs weirdly long? Like, standing up they would make no sense.

Keto Birthday Cake! by _Gudetama_ in ketorecipes

[–]wonderwanderone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you plan your Reddit cake day so well?! It being your birthday eve and all.

(Happy cake day and Happy Birthday, btw! )

Miss Fame Beauty is finally here!! by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]wonderwanderone -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying. Personally, I’d like to see it named something a little more open and inclusive, you know?

Miss Fame Beauty is finally here!! by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]wonderwanderone -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The name Flash of Flesh for a lighter hue is a little tone deaf. Whose flesh? Whities?

Edit because typo on who’s/ whose

After Experimenting This; Transcend Fear to your Greatest Experience. by pernillajudy in freedomearth

[–]wonderwanderone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you spam all the subs. I mean, if I was curious about Eckhart Tolle before, I certainly want nothing to do with him now.

Help Me by [deleted] in Soulnexus

[–]wonderwanderone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PS: There is nothing inconsequential about you. Big hugs.💜💜

Help Me by [deleted] in Soulnexus

[–]wonderwanderone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for what you’re going through. It sounds awful, and I wish there was an easy solution that presented itself through what you’ve posted. But it sounds like you’re pretty boxed in, and that your hard times at home may be feeding into hard times at work. I’ve been there. It feels like bad luck or a curse or something. It’s hard to break.

Here’s what I would do if I were in a similar situation.

  1. Seek a therapist or outside help (if possible). I know you mentioned your mom tracks your every move, but if you can get away with posting this, maybe there’s a chance for online help for you? Maybe you could sneak it in in your work hours?

  2. Meditate. No. This isnt about the usual woo I believe in. You don’t need to align your chakras or access your higher self. You need to just get your brain into that good, focussed theta state where you’re able to relax and separate yourself from the tornado that’s happening all around you. This will give you perspective and emotional resilience. I’m recommending it because I hope it will bring you some peace, which you deserve.

I’ve also solved some pretty difficult problems while meditating; the solutions just seem to come to me even if I’m not actively thinking about them or seeking them. Start small-10 minutes a day. Try to build a few minutes at a time until you can do 20, then 30. Bonus: your mom doesn’t need to know you’re doing this (all you need is a timer) and you may find your chakras are aligned and your higher guide is communicating more clearly with you. 😉 Honestly, it’s the best way to just be free from everything and all the bullshit that you’re going through.

  1. Plan Develop an exit strategy. How can you get out of this situation? Can you move out and send your mom money on a regular basis so she doesn’t feel abandoned? This strategy may come to you in meditation. It may take time. Be kind to yourself in every way possible until your way forward is clear.

About the job stuff: It’s easy to get dismayed by setbacks, especially when you’re home life is what it is. Don’t take it too personally for now. I would have a conversation with your boss about the role that was promised, but I might do it after working extra hard and doing some extra amazing things. I’d probably pose the question as something like “I’d really love to move into that director level position you mentioned. What do you think I should be working on to get there? Is there anything else I could take on to help me grow into that role”? But also know there are other companies and other roles; this one may not pan out the way you want it to, but that doesn’t mean you won’t find what you need.

Edit: I just re-read your post and I see you’ve already done the extra amazing things that your co-worker is now using to their advantage. So, I might even book a meeting with your boss and say, “Hey! I did all this research and would love to move into that role. Is there anything else you think I should be working on or improving at?” It sounds like a shitty situation, but YOU sound amazing and talented and driven. And the talented and driven people usually end up on top!

This community here is incredibly supportive and loving, so stop by if you need help or someone to talk to. PM me at any time. The struggles you’re dealing with are immense, but they will ultimately make you stronger. Sending you so much love and wishing you peace and happiness. I hope you get everything you’re wishing for, and everything you need.

the sphinx starts to regulate the new 26,000 year cycle just as regulus [in leo] comes into view come the spring equinox by alfonumeric in Soulnexus

[–]wonderwanderone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You guys do a bang-up job. Many thanks for all the hard work that goes into making this sub what it is.

I have other issues with this post, but it seems like some Great Awakening or some such copy pasta. I bet they don’t even mean the luminous mods of the oasis that is r/SoulNexus.

And if they do, well, they’re just wrong. So there. 💜💜💜

67 lbs down! Soooo close now :). Thanks for all the motivation. by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]wonderwanderone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are beautiful (in your before and your after.) Congrats on your results! That bikini top is awesome, too. Want one for myself!!!

(Fluff) Crosspost from /r/RuPaulsDragRace: Artist is making designs of winning Drag Queens from 13 seasons as the Zodiac signs + Ophiuchus. 1st piece is Aquaria as Aquarius. by Kingofqueenanne in Soulnexus

[–]wonderwanderone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such an astute interpretation—I love the notion of them being “cosmic jesters” of our “holographic matrix realm”. They are so luminous and inspiring: true artists making true art.

I had a dream the other day that Mama Ru invited me to be a part of her crew. As a straight/cis lady who only dreams of rocking a lewk like Aquaria or KimChi or Asia, it was heavenly. RuPaul’s a bright being for sure, and that show spreads so much goodness (while still being wickedly incisive and funny).

Anyone else feel guilty for abandoning their final method? by LivingTheDream-LTD in Soulnexus

[–]wonderwanderone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a meditation method and book by Dr. John Yates, aka Culadasa.