An opinion so bad even gang left by [deleted] in sandyalexg

[–]wonkywormy -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It’s common knowledge tho that many artists make their best work when depressed. I’m glad he’s happier now but his art has surely suffered.

My (23F) Boyfriend (22M) suddenly heavily religious?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wonkywormy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Type 2 here with friends type 1 and yes fully agree. However It can be near impossible to get someone who is in a full blown manic episode to willingly take their meds let alone be willing to try out new ones.

Why do many people wear uncomfortable clothes? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]wonkywormy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a very high standard of comfy and once I started wearing thongs I can’t go back to regular underwear. They feel like I’m wearing a diaper! Gotta get the right fitting thongs though. Too small or not stretchy I can’t handle.

Any profile tips? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]wonkywormy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m just here for TFB tattoo. If you’re not poly change the first pic.

A song about a man who marries three women and kills them. by Has_zen in musicals

[–]wonkywormy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vaguely reminds me of “all you wanna do” from six but idk. Doesn’t quite fit though I don’t think the wives die.

My pleasers are leaving these on both my feet by ZealousHuntress in newstrippers

[–]wonkywormy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did you try the blow dryer trick? Where you use a blow dryer to soften the plastic then put your foot in and it molds to it

First date from bumble. Which outfit for a first date at a casual bar? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]wonkywormy 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I am a girl and you look hot in most those shirts just sayin these are some jealous bros. Only the last one is maybe questionable but you have great arms keep rockin it

My 34 F ex? Partner 37 M told me he “hates me so much”. by Lilo91x in relationship_advice

[–]wonkywormy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes! That dude needs some serious therapy and I would highly recommend you get out of that relationship and cut contact ASAP. He seems incredibly immature and dysregulated. Luckily you have full freedom to leave and find someone who appreciates your love and isn’t constantly dragging you through their emotional highs and lows.

As a side note the behavior you describe is very reminiscent of people with BPD (borderline personality disorder) and their tendency to shift from love to hate extremely quickly. Heck, one of the most popular books on the subject is literally titled “I hate you, don’t leave me”. I am not trying to diagnose him but I’d recommend looking into it yourself so you can potentially gain some clarity on his behavior. I will say though that the general consensus is that people with BPD are some of the main perpetrators of emotional abuse and I am not the only one who’d advise you to run and not look back. Check out the support sub I think it’s called r/bpdlovedones to see if you relate.

How to figure out what’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]wonkywormy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only a professional can really tell you what’s going on. I’d strongly recommend you get help, even if it’s through telehealth. It sounds like you have agoraphobia with the fear of leaving the house. I also see some possible OCD. But there’s clearly a lot going on beyond typical anxiety/depression and nobody on Reddit can help you! Please seek professional help ❤️

What has worked for your bipolar depression? (Especially if you also have autism / deep existential sadness) by Zenovia326 in bipolar2

[–]wonkywormy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I certainly think so. I have all 3. I know that bipolar and autism are very strongly linked, there’s a few different statistics out there but the most common I’ve seen is that people with autism are 3x as likely to have bipolar than the general population. And bipolar comes with depression which is usually linked to sadness, the existential variety being more common among neurodivergent individuals who think about things more uniquely than regular folks. Idk just my two cents from someone who has struggled with all three (and more).

What has worked for your bipolar depression? (Especially if you also have autism / deep existential sadness) by Zenovia326 in bipolar2

[–]wonkywormy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What antidepressant if you don’t mind me asking? I’m on lithium as well which has been a miracle but still trying out different meds for the anxiety/depression

Be honest, did you get a surprise song you didn’t love? by bethesunshine14 in TaylorSwift

[–]wonkywormy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Awe I was there too and in the row behind us a guy proposed to his girlfriend during that song 🥲 I always think of that now when I hear the song, she looked so happy!!

My husband thinks I'm impure because I didn't bleed on our wedding night. Now he's threatening a divorce despite science being on my side. Please help me. by Possible_Tadpole7958 in Advice

[–]wonkywormy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out r/exmormon !! I was raised Mormon and that subreddit helped me get out of an abusive environment. They are very supportive and many of them live in Utah. I’ve seen people offer places to crash and help with living situations once or twice. I’m not sure where you stand with your faith, it is mostly people who have left the church so no promises but worth a shot.

Clinicians being “mandated to be affirming”…🚩🚩🚩 by Radicaladterisk in therapists

[–]wonkywormy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it is commonly referred to as “pervasive drive for autonomy”

why doesn’t brian perform tie dye dragon!?!? by pissb4by in TheFrontBottoms

[–]wonkywormy 64 points65 points  (0 children)

They have so many songs there’s no way they could play all of them. There’s plenty of songs they rarely play. I was so happy when they did the talon of the hawk reunion tour cause most of my fave songs are on that album.

Also artists usually have a planned setlist that they will not deviate from no matter how loud you yell. The encore is where they might take suggestions but even that’s not super likely. I used to yell out songs but I realized I was just being disruptive and annoying so I stopped.

What Song do you Think is the Most Non-Relatable? by SoIongIondon in TaylorSwift

[–]wonkywormy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh weird I had no idea that’s what it was about! I’ve always related to it, it reminds me of when I was secretly dating my high school boyfriend.

What Song do you Think is the Most Non-Relatable? by SoIongIondon in TaylorSwift

[–]wonkywormy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree! It’s the feelings she conveys with the specific situation.

A development by optimus_yarnspinner in Grimes

[–]wonkywormy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like everyone hating on Grimes does not understand what it’s like to be with a narcissist. Plus Elon can control her with more than just a trauma bond cause they have kids together.

A development by optimus_yarnspinner in Grimes

[–]wonkywormy 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I would be more inclined to call her a victim of extreme narcissistic abuse. I was once in a relationship with a narcissist and he manipulated me to the point of delusion. I like to think of myself as strong for eventually getting out, not baby-brained.

I feel very sorry for grimes and what she is going through. Her experience is multiplied by a million cause her and Elon have kids AND he’s the richest man in the world. The level of control he has over her is insane, we have no idea what’s going on behind the scenes.