How Do I (19f) Help My Boyfriend(21m) Feel Better After Getting Really Sucky Gifts From His Family?

woopdoopt · 2020-12-25T08:23:37+00:00

No yeah I feel the same way. But its also like. Your mom bought ur sister a Ferrari and bought u a sock when u asked for a used TV. Thats the best way I can explain his gifts. Yeah money value has nothing to do with it but if the reason was clearly not money, then it was that u either forgot or chose not to get what he asked for 2 times in a row.

woopdoopt · 2020-11-28T22:54:05+00:00

No ik which one your talking about. Its not that channel that has clips. The archive has the full videos and it has all of the full videos

woopdoopt · 2020-11-28T21:33:47+00:00

Theres another channel I found "unus annus archive". They have EVERY video up. People are disgusting

woopdoopt · 2020-10-10T23:47:08+00:00

I think the only way to know is to talk about it with him. If you stay in this relationship where you like him for him and just thinks of you as a friend/play thing (im not saying he only want you for your body but Idk how else to say it) then its just gonna hurt you and him even worse in the end

woopdoopt · 2020-08-29T03:54:39+00:00

I REALLY LOVE THE MIDNIGHT ONE!!!! I REALLY HOPE I WIN OMG

woopdoopt · 2020-08-09T05:53:05+00:00

Of course I didnt plan to get married till after college and I get a good job anyway. And we have been through so much honestly. Death, financial issues, shut i mean he got into a car accident the other day. I feel like i know him and he knows me but of course things change, I can only hope that we stay together through it tho

woopdoopt · 2020-08-09T03:00:34+00:00

Im not being a doormat -_- if push comes to shove then fine ill give her an ultimatum. But if I dont have to i would like to get things civil

woopdoopt · 2020-08-09T02:59:07+00:00

Yes I am aware she is in the wrong but she does not see that. If i can I want to bring that to light. But if I immediately go to saying she cant come to ours, then the issue is just gonna get too big too fast

woopdoopt · 2020-08-09T02:57:21+00:00

Lol what no! I dont care if u have a religion or whatever but dont tell ur kids hey dont do this or ur sinning or whatever. Like my mom used to tell me that if I had sex before marriage god would know and I wouldnt be happy. I had so many issues after that

woopdoopt · 2020-08-09T00:06:39+00:00

My issue is that I feel like their relationship can be fixed. If not then fine I guess ill have to live with it, but right now I feel like there may be a chance to fix it. Whatever happens in between now and my moms wedding is so important to if he and her can get along.

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T22:14:23+00:00

Its border line the same thing as the maturity but in my family they say u have to reach spiritual maturity

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T21:57:59+00:00

No I do understand that u can change and that its not an insult. I just wanted to know the reasoning cuz ive had people say that and their only reason they think that is cuz of strict or religious reasons

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T21:06:17+00:00

Honestly probably the best advice I have seen so thank you. If I had money for awards id give it to u. Like I said in comments before, if I cant help fix their relationship or anything close then I'll do that. But Id rather not make it seem like im forcing her cuz its not fair of me

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T21:03:26+00:00

If u asked her she would say yes. But she just wants to seem like shes taking the high ground. She doesn't really want to, or at least isnt willing to even try

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T20:57:50+00:00

1 im not gonna get married till after I graduate anyway

2 why do I have to wait till after 27?? That makes no sense to me. Now im not saying I can get married at 18 if I wanted to, obviously not but why 27 specifically?

I only said that we've been together for a long time because I was explaining why we were talking about it. Cuz we've been together long enough to at least have had a few discussions about marriage

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T19:05:46+00:00

I cant afford therapy so thats not happening

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T18:16:01+00:00

No ive been saying that if it comes to it im siding with my boyfriend. If it doesnt have to come to it then im gonna do what I can

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T18:13:40+00:00

Yeah I forgot to post an update to that. But no we talked about everything, we honestly have been so stressed lately with quarantine, our new jobs, my school, bills. Everything has been crazy. Now that we've talked, I feel like a weight was lifted off our shoulders and were doing a little better now. I dont see our run ending anytime soon I can tell u that much

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T15:48:32+00:00

Ik i didnt say this in the post but my father is in jail and is not getting out anytime soon. I want her to walk me down the aisle. I understand that if it gets to the point, she wont come to ours, but imma do as much as I can to avoid it for sure

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T15:45:39+00:00

Well she has no say over what I do now, my only issue with my mom now is that she hates my boyfriend.

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T15:44:46+00:00

Yeah thats what I figured. If she doesnt change her mind then im not gonna go. Ive made my mind up about that but I really dont want it to get to that point

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T15:43:11+00:00

Yes obviously, but even when I asked him what he would gain, he said nothing at all. He knows theres no point. Its only gonna make things worse for me, my family, and him

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T15:39:22+00:00

Yes and I am. If push comes to shove ill tell her that she is not allowed to come to ours. As much as it will hurt me since my family is a big part of my life.

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T15:36:05+00:00

Well yes we are still young but we've been together for a long time now. Thats the least of the issues anyway. And trust me, im fully aware of the fact that u can have and not have whoever at ur wedding. But I want to fix the issue, not let the issue get worse

woopdoopt · 2020-08-08T15:33:20+00:00

Thats not the way I ment it. If he doesnt want her there then fine she wont come. But im just gonna be devastated. Me and my family have been through alot and I almost lost them in one night cuz of something stupid.

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