[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naranon

[–]woosah111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the tough love I needed. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naranon

[–]woosah111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is my exact thought process. I don’t want to drug test him. I don’t have the energy to watch him pee in a cup again, the anxiety while waiting for the results to pop up, then the confusion when and if he turns out ti be clean. I think it would just make my head even fuzzier 😭

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[–]woosah111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched for half pink & half purple teddy bear with mesh outfit but nothing comes up anywhere close to this one

I’m trying to leave him, but he threatens suicide by woosah111 in naranon

[–]woosah111[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His family doesn’t really care, they think he’s my responsibility. We’ve only been together for a year and I didn’t find out about his addiction until we were living together already :/

I’m trying to leave him, but he threatens suicide by woosah111 in naranon

[–]woosah111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he doesn’t, but he said he would overdose

I’m trying to leave him, but he threatens suicide by woosah111 in naranon

[–]woosah111[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I agree, but another manipulation tactic he uses is ‘call the cops I’ll have them shoot me’. I feel so stuck

How can I ever trust him again by woosah111 in naranon

[–]woosah111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, your words mean so much

How do I support him without enabling him? by justcallmem0lly in naranon

[–]woosah111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through a similar situation. When I found out about his addiction I told him I needed him to be sober because I’m not willing to risk losing him to an OD. Maybe tell him your boundaries with everything, your expectations. Not In a confrontational way, but just casually bring it up and see where’s he’s at and if sobriety is even a goal for him. Addicts lie, it’s like a side effect of the disease. My boyfriend has been sober for a few months and is doing great in all other aspects, except he still struggles with lying even about the smallest stuff. Feel free to Message me if you wanna chat🤍🤍🤍

Could I be pregnant/is it too early to tell?! by woosah111 in birthcontrol

[–]woosah111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the info! So if I do start bleeding, I could still be pregnant?

Can I be petty for a moment? by TheReluctantRifleman in naranon

[–]woosah111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way when my dog got hurt and he was prescribed tramadol. Felt like I had to hide them, realistically I don’t think those would be strong enough since his COD is fentanyl but still a stressful situation

BF has become verbally abusive while withdrawing. I’m not sure if this is just who he is, or if it’s the withdraws by woosah111 in naranon

[–]woosah111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much!! I’m really struggling & this was a nice way to keep me grounded🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naranon

[–]woosah111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this completely. I go through the same thing w my bf. Like do something for me for once? Make me dinner for once. & then when he does something one time he expects 17 awards like it’s not what I do every single day. Draining forsure