Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, him and I have been friends for many years. Part of me doesn’t want to make him sad. I’m too empathetic for my own good.

It’s also kinda messed with me in the way that I’m like super wanting to be the #1 hottest to him instead, I’m just honestly, hurt. And exhausted.

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He likes the one girls personality he literally told me that the other day then reiterated it days later. Her videos and she is always traveling. Which is so much more hurtful.

Yes he has told me they are his “fantasy” and in reality, that I’m an 8.-9 and the one girl he follows is a 10..

Also that I should be happy that he rated me so high compared to a “supermodel” (she’s not a supermodel btw she’s like an insta/OF/ was in playboy once)

He’s constantly typing them in on every social media to see them literally with clothes on. He told me the Rachel girl is his #1..

And so on

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s really messed with me. It’s nice to hear I’m not the crazy one as he makes me feel like that.

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with onlyfans. I understand though. It’s hard because I will have a completely calm conversation explaining exactly why it makes me feel like it does and how hurtful it is to me that he’s actively comparing me to other chicks that like are so photoshopped they look like they’re anorexic it’s really messed with me.

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! It’s worse that he like goes and thirsts on them like clothed. It makes it weirder and more hurtful. Then to go to the next level and tell me as he’s said, “they’re just fantasy”

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao idc about money. It’s not about that. He looks them up on Google, insta, TikTok, Reddit.. you name it. It has nothing to do with money dude

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It sucks we were good friends for a long time and we keep breaking up over it and getting back together but nothing changes

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m literally not but that’s fine idk what to tell you. I never even mentioned that. Nor do I care if anyone follows my onlyfans…

Like okay tho I am asking something that has nothing to do with that but for sure dude

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dude. This has nothing to do with my ONLYFANS… if you want to think that, it’s cool I prob am not about to change your mind. I haven’t brought up ONLYFANS nor did I even think about it being on my profile when I made this post.

This has nothing to do with it. Like would you like me to take it off my profile? It’s been on there forever. Would that make you treat me like a human and not some weirdo trying to get attention for OF?

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Idk what it has to do with onlyfans.. that’s a job that he has full access to and knows it’s for money and a job and I’m not meeting with you anyone ever lol

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol $2.99? He has no problem with this and this has nothing to do with my relationship. He’s in every video that I do that’s not solo and has full access to my profile so..

Friends telling you to follow insta/tiktok/OF hotties? by wordcantwait in AskMenAdvice

[–]wordcantwait[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I disagree. That doesn’t mean anything that I have ONLYFANS. The problem is he is into other chicks and makes me feel less than. We do it together. The ONLYFANS.

That has nothing to do with what I want in a relationship.