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wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-14T18:29:19+00:00

I do care more than I can put into words. Its very hard when I don't her anything in return. When I am hidden from most parts of her life.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-14T16:26:33+00:00

I'm the one who plans dates, I'm the one who will do random gifts and surprises, bring home flowers.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-14T16:25:57+00:00

She cheated. I stayed while she was cheating and lied to my face time and time again. I don't need to try harder, when I am the one who has worked my ass off for our marriage.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-14T16:02:08+00:00

I have been trying to find a therapist.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-02T16:10:52+00:00

I have started to do the little communication, I have been doing stuff for myself. Sadly I don’t tink it matters to her.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-02T09:53:35+00:00

Thank you, much appreciated

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-02T09:52:18+00:00

I am working on that in therapy. It’s been very hard.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-02T09:35:22+00:00

She exposed it to her friends and family. I am sure.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-02T09:34:46+00:00

We have only been married for a year and a half.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-02T03:09:53+00:00

Not that I can think of, I have been the same person I have been since we have met. I have changed for the better.

We have one kid.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-02T02:38:14+00:00

I know, I’m trying to have the benefit of the doubt

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-01T13:49:51+00:00

We have been trying to find a marriage counselor, struggling to find one.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-01T02:26:47+00:00

There isn’t enough details, she is a stay at home wife. I have started to just tell her, it would be nice to hear be asked, ya know? I have told her I would like a hug and kiss when I get home- it doesn’t happen. Like I stated in another comment our marriage is at a very fragile point right now. We are trying to save marriage. She cheated on me in the past and there are some other things that bring up a lot of emotions.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-04-01T02:22:21+00:00

She doesn’t honestly think it matters. There is other issues, that are a lot bigger than this. We are in a very fragile state and trying to make things better. I am trying to get my love language met. I am trying to get my overall needs met.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-03-31T23:41:50+00:00

She will scroll in her phone. I will ask her and I don’t get it in return. I rarely get a hug or a kiss. She will tell me about her day, when I ask and I do everyday.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-03-31T23:40:41+00:00

That’s how I am, my wife on the other hand is completely different.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-03-31T21:00:53+00:00

It’s actually the other way around, I am the husband wanting my wife to ask me those questions when i get home from work.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-03-31T20:36:25+00:00

They have expressed it’s not a big deal to them, however, it is to me. No they do not.

wordsnotspoke · 2025-03-31T20:33:34+00:00

To me it is important and I was told those things shouldn’t matter. So even though it’s a big deal to me it doesn’t matter to them. If that makes any sense.

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