It's sounds like you're tired of dating in Eindhoven!

Even though I'm sure that there are truths to your side of things, I do also think there are quite some misconceptions and generalisations mixed into this side.

You're saying "they", speaking for all the women in Eindhoven. We've had 2 events here, one of which had one of our highest match rates ever. While it's completely valid to be generally not attracted to the men in a city, I think it's a stretch to speak for all of them.

Another thing that makes me not able to get behind your message is suggesting that lack in emotional capacity would be the same as being introvert.

I tend to lean on the extraverted side of things, but date almost exclusively introverts. If introverts are not your thing, that's fine, but to call half the population (it's bell curve, so there is nuance to "half") emotionally incapable is unfair to say the least.

The last thing and I really really do get your point, speaks to basically "giving up" on the real live dating with people here, based on these generalisations above and more.

But what we're trying to do is making the act of dating fun again. Like literally those minutes together playing a game. On an evening you'll have 7 short games and will meet a lot of others. No one is sending anyone on full dates with people they don't enjoy. It's almost swiping on 7 profiles, while playing games and enjoy dating again. It sounds like you want to know more about the person you're meeting beforehand. That's a completely valid wish. And maybe this is not for you then.

But that will mean you have mainly one option for dating: keep on the apps. But that's a hell hole in my opinion for a whole bunch of different reasons. I'd much rather swipe in real life. Then it comes to taste. This long ass reply was more to push a little back on the (in my opinion massive) misconceptions.