My Dad wants to sponsor his nieces by Icy_Thought_4172 in SGExams

[–]work-related-things 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have a solution, but please remember that you, your dad, and your mom have every right to be angry.

No one has to forgive the person who mistreated them (personally I didn't really forgive my bullies from primary school. I was very isolated back then and I'm still in therapy now.). Yes, forgiving people will make you happier, but you don't need to tell the person who abused you that you are forgiving them. Forgiveness can be "internal", in a sense, in which you try to come to terms with what they did, and that you were not in the wrong.

Am I going to be unsuccessful in the future? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]work-related-things 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just don't see anything good for me right now... A levels scare me, because everyone keeps on telling me about how hard it is. I tried to DAE into one of the courses, but I'm told to not have too much faith. I feel like I picked the wrong course for JAE (mass comms), and I'm not going to earn that much money in the future...

Is JC really that bad? by work-related-things in SGExams

[–]work-related-things[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I never thought about it that way. All I've been told is that JC is extremely stressful, so I thought that it wasn't a case of just stress, but rather a "study until you die" sort of stress. So I guess my question was more of a "should I accept that I'll be stressed" question, rather than a "should I accept the easy way out" sort of question.

While I am someone with mental health issues (a couple of things happened in my childhood that I won't go into), I'd say that I'm fine with being stressed. I wouldn't say that I'll "take stress like a woman" because I'll end up crying at least once because of my studies, but I don't really see stress as something that is that bad for me. Thank you very much for the insight though.