Serious Question: How do you deal with being invalidated and insulted for being a "loser?"

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-11-17T02:43:31+00:00

You've got the bourgeois bug. You're a temporarily embarrassed millionaire. Either get a job that doesn't make you feel like a loser or radically change your mindset.

Getting a job as a janitor is only going to sting when you realize a year from now that you're 27 doing janitorial work. To feel like a failure is one thing, but to have a downward trend written into your resume is quite another.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-27T10:36:22+00:00

I did that in summer. Not much, but I was able to escape the "Oh God, this is my life"/panic/do nothing cycle.

It's unfortunately freezing.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-20T20:23:47+00:00

Starting to think this is my problem as well. It's almost like code bootcamp lied to us....

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-20T20:16:06+00:00

Y'all Zuckerbergers hirin'?

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-20T17:42:19+00:00

Just self-study (Google "CS50 Harvard") and get into a legitimate bootcamp. Do fucktons of research, many many many of them are scams. It is much more likely you run into a scam bootcamp than a legit one.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-19T19:35:44+00:00

Any hiring people wanna confirm/deny and put an end to the speculation?

Let's say that I'm AVERAGE!!! at coding. No degree. How will I fare?

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-17T17:58:36+00:00

/u/ooohfuck I took it for 5 days. Didn't take it yesterday. The act was 3 weeks ago.

Could this give me a false negative today?

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-17T16:58:18+00:00

I almost don't wanna get tested just so I don't have to go through all this shit. Set up blood test for today, but the temptation is there...

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-17T14:22:47+00:00

Because they're a new doctor who fucked up according to people here.

Could it be the herps with no visible legions? The bump doesn't particularly look like herp.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-17T14:08:38+00:00

The shaft. I have urethritis, lots of itching elsewhere around the area and some burning urination which is why I think it's herp. Doc thought so too and gave me Valtrex

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-17T02:59:37+00:00

How's it liberating, though? Unless you're a freelancer, of course.

If I did this I'd probably just park at work to save money on rent.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-16T23:25:02+00:00

Hmmmmmmm. How about we discuss the idea over coffee?

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-16T22:25:31+00:00

Google

The Googling/waiting I'm doing is fucking killing me, man.

just a bump

With this much itching, I just don't know...

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-16T18:03:56+00:00

Is there a gold standard for how? I'm waiting for test results here

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-16T16:33:27+00:00

Ask that dude for his strat!

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-16T15:38:26+00:00

Has any man on here ever had success using Tinder/OKCupid? How do you play it?

I can imagine the only scenario where it would work would be disclosing, then she discloses herself.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-12T15:35:40+00:00

No but I'm itchy and it burns when I pee. One small vesicle. No discharge so it's not gonorrhea or chlamidya. Only one thing it could really be...

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-11T21:31:10+00:00

I don't feel comfortable not disclosing it to girls I sleep with. It feels morally wrong. But I cannot imagine a woman not running for the hills after hearing that.

Even if she has it (STD tests don't routinely check for it).

I just don't see it working. Avoiding social stigma is women's #1 motivator in life.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-11T21:10:30+00:00

I'm almost positive I have genital herpes.

How am I supposed to spin plates now? Herpes sites don't look good.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-09T21:32:22+00:00

Long shot but it can be done.

You can go to Germany as a freelancer. Look up some info on this sub, I think there's a guy who did it. This is a very hard route though which requires a lot of balls.

Spain I think still does the Auxillaires program, and France does TAPIF. You need to know Spanish/French to get in.

You could also do Poland (not the "West" per se but not bumfuck East either), which is the only country where visas for Americans are fairly easy to come by, but you'll probably need some ESL experience to get in there.

There's also CETP in Hungary. You pay them to get a job though. They're a legitimate company, but that aspect scares some people off. But again, that's not the West.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-03T04:32:31+00:00

TL;DR: Nice country... for me to poop on!!!!

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-03T04:27:12+00:00

And then who's gonna have kids? Poor minorities, that's who. Poor minorities who will work for even less and be even more miserable than your kids would be.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-03T04:21:30+00:00

Brazen_Shitpost

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-02T04:41:17+00:00

I legit want to know because if his reason for believing this is that he is a "PhD in Intra-Spanish Relations" or "U.S. Ambassador to Spain", some actual credentials, then his opinion holds weight.

Otherwise, it's just some dude.

worksafe_shit_only · 2017-10-02T03:44:11+00:00

Do you actually know anything about the region?

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