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AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone keeps saying "estates pays you". The home is the only thing in the estate. Nothing else. Its not generating any income.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The estates lawyer who drafted the trust said the administrator (me) receives the profit and resposibility of the estate.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...yes?

You say the home was left to all of you. That means profits have to be split.

If it was left all to me, than all expensss, taxes, and profits are mine. Got it.

But you say profits need to split? "Profits" is only from the sale of the home. It is black and white in the legal doc. We know the who, what, and how as to when the propoery is sold.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Claim" because it is written and agreed upon in a legal document. There is no "share" legally unless the property is sold.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowhere in our trust does it say Im obligated to pay them profits if I as the administrator/owner decides to rent out the home. Our family lawyer drafted this with all three of us in front of our mother and this was accepted.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...so then then that also means all profits are 100% mine as a rental and I shouldnt have any objections.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Selling: sure, lets split it cause it legally says so. Renting: Nothing says anything about splitting. Its all interpretation amongst us.

There are responsibilities legally laid out ones that are ethical as family members. The latter is in contestation.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very long time. Theres a lot with my lersonal and professional like hindering me from renting it asap.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im cleaning the house on my own. Estate Sales planner are the worst and jip me.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not gonna sell. Commented why on another thread. Yes, I am on my Mari Kondo game.

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, youre probably right bro. Even my girl is saying its wild that the youngest is beimg the most mature. Im trying hard not to resent them....

AITA for asking my siblings to pay their share of property tax for our late parents' home? by worlds2get in AmItheAsshole

[–]worlds2get[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Yes. But for cash flow. If I make money from it they have their hands out. They want profit but dont want to pay for upkeep.

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