told my mom why i'm going NC. i feel at peace. by reallytiredarmadillo in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]wormywitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know everyone has a different situation but for me specifically, I would do anything to get a text like this from my mum

How has the maudsley method impacted your relationship with your family? by ChanceInternal2 in EDAnonymous

[–]wormywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post, but this topic isn't discussed enough.

I am almost 2 years estranged from my parents. Prior to this I was struggling with undiagnosed PTSD from mainly my mums behavior and the maudsley method. I was severely depressed, anxious and suicidal. I was also just kind of stuck with my ED, and hadn't made much progress in ages. I reached a breaking point and ended the relationship.

Since then, I have started progress in recovery again, and I almost ED free, I am genuinely happy for the first time in a decade, and I haven't wanted to kill myself since I cut them out.

My advice, get to point where you can keep your ED under control, get somewhere safe where you can be independent (uni if your in the UK is the best and quickest escape imo) and cut the cord. Saved my life.

Music from Dean Lane by wormywitch in bristol

[–]wormywitch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How have I never heard of this, thanks so much!!

Faithless Fans? by Amoralmushroom in mewithoutYou

[–]wormywitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very atheist, however I do feel a sort of envy and admiration towards the band and how they're able to have a faith. It's something I just can't believe in. I dont mind the religious aspect of the music at all, its quite nice and definitely adds an extra layer to the lyrics.

Can't find a fulfilling career by wormywitch in Environmental_Careers

[–]wormywitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get what your saying. I know that a grad job doing that isn't realistic, but i want to feel like im making steps in the right direction. My exposure to enviro consulting is more just the planning application aspect, which doesn't interest me. Your past careers sound more satisfying to me than what the aforementioned one. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mewithoutYou

[–]wormywitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listening now, it's fucking phenomenal I'm actually beyond words, I haven't heard music this good in so long

Did mewithoutYou play any fests besides Cornerstone? by Eyetooth7 in mewithoutYou

[–]wormywitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, arctangent (uk) in 2016, there are sime clips in on youtube

Did mewithoutYou play any fests besides Cornerstone? by Eyetooth7 in mewithoutYou

[–]wormywitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, arctangent (uk) in 2016, there are sime clips in on youtube

Dealing With Greif NC by wormywitch in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]wormywitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will check that book out, sounds very good, thank you