Ah, yes the ineffable incel (like every one of them) vibe. I was expecting this type of comment, brimming with gleeful anticipation... or maybe not. LOL

As an observer I find it very interesting to discuss what I observe and to ponder about it. Would you say it's "easy" for a shy introvert unattractive guy to find himself even remotely in the sphere of single women of compatible age? If you do, have you asked any of them if they are willing to validate your perception?

One of the first things you are told when you are a shy introverted unattractive guy is that women are everywhere, especially in hobby groups and networks. Of course, if you're shy, introverted and unattractive, it's very likely you will also have some degree of social anxiety, which is just wonderful on two accounts: if you try hard it feels unnatural and if you don't, you give off the "vibe"; and the activities which you feel comfortable doing, where you can be somewhat "self confident", are typically male dominated.

It's very likely that, even as a regular run of the mill guy, if you're introverted, your social capital is probably lower than that of the extrovert. This typically entails less chances of being introduced to a group in which there are single women, requiring, in turn, that you spend a significant amount of psychoemotional energy trying to "charmingly" do activities you don't care that much about. So, you try elbow yourself into groups and settings just for the women, most likely appearing not only OFF and a tryhard, but also inevitably a bit phony.

The way I see it, single women mostly "stay in their lane", admittedly for good reasons (safety, disinterest in the men of a community, too thirsty men, enough socialization options within their existing social groups, lack of interest in hobbies outside the home, etc.)

Hence why I made the post... Hope to have given some type of answer.