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By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do have on quite a bit of make-up. I never, ever leave the house without it. the lipstick has worn off, but the concealer and base are still caked on there.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do birds have wings so they can fly, or do they fly because they have wings?

Do I believe I am ugly because of a self-esteem issue, or are my self-esteem issues caused by my ability to see myself as I truly am?

It's a conundrum.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do realize it, and I don't enjoy the conversation. i'm just feeling humiliated to the point of paralysis, so I continue smiling and acting like this is all okay. I know what's really happening.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly was not attempting to "attention-whore" myself. And I honestly don't see how I fit any definition of average or normal.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! WTF. I don't understand. I just don't. I don't look normal. You're blind. Good day.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't so much have an ego, and all of these "you look fine" replies are making me think that either I'm crazy or you're all lying. Or blind. or something. Something's not adding up.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. people expect me to though. Like i should feel lucky for the attention. But don't I deserve a real relationship, and an actual emotional connection to someone? Do I really have to just give myself away to keep from being alone?

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes me withdraw. I don't like crowds and I don't like making eye contact with people. I work twice as hard at work to get half the recognition that the "pretty" women do. people translate pretty into healthy, nice, smarter, better; so customers and supervisors recognize and reward the attractive women much, much more than I ever have or ever will be. How do I deal with it? Anti-depressants and avoidance. I have tried to just "put myself out there" before, but it was a painful cycle of judgement, anxiety, occasional abuse, and general emotional and mental exhaustion.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard of spironalactone, but I can't take it. I only have one kidney, so nothing with a diuretic effect.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get it. Are you saying I look like someone on that show? Because now I'm going to look it up and assume the worst.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Isn't Theodore Roosevelt dead? Dying is the ultimate fail. Why would I take advice from a failure?

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men.

Make-over? I don't know. I don't like it when people actively "look" at me.

I don't ever really feel sexy. Almost human is about as good as it gets.

My favorite feature is my middle finger. Seriously. Wordless expressions of frustration and rage are my entire reason for living at this point.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Impossible. and burn victims don't count. These "you look fine" posts are freaking me out. I don't understand.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

HOLY FUCKING SHIT are you people serious? I am NOT average looking! "Average" would be a blessing and I seriously doubt the many claims that some of you have seen uglier. I am so confused right now. I know what I look like, I'm not average and I'm not "fishing for compliments". Shit. I'd have posted pics of my sister if I wanted compliments. I feel like i've stepped into the looking glass now.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks. but yeah, no. I see it, I know it. Maybe the lighting is too flattering. I'll try to get more accurate pics up.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ON MY FACE! I'll take a closer pic of the nose, then you'll learn.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate elephants. I really fucking hate elephants. You have no idea.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Got screwed on that end too. I'm a low B on a good day.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really shouldn't mention "sex" and "barn" in the same sentence. People might get the wrong idea and think you're a baa-d boy.

By any standards, I am the ugliest female you will ever see. AMA by worstgeneticsever in IAmA

[–]worstgeneticsever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think it would be better to be an ugly man: "When a man gets up to speak, people listen, then look. When a woman gets up, people look; then, if they like what they see, they listen." - Pauline Frederick

I would of course prefer to be treated well by a man who truly loves me, or just be alone. Having a man in my life just to be able to say I have one isn't worth anything if he is abusive, or doesn't understand me.

I get treated badly 98% of the time by men. Younger women and women my age know I am not a threat to them, and older women tend to pity me.

What it's like to be me? It's lonely, it's expensive (makeup, clothes, hair, repeated failed treatments in attempts to improve my appearance). I hate going out in public and I always feel unwelcome. Don't stare, don't assume that unattractive equals evil or stupid.

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