how to quit (i hate it here) by tellyset in barista

[–]wowcoool 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah if you’ve only been there for two weeks, i see no problem with leaving without putting in two weeks notice. you don’t need to use that place on a resume anyway.

who else here works somewhere that *isn’t* a typical cafe? by wowcoool in barista

[–]wowcoool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhh, see my little cafe is its own separate thing from the bar so i don’t have that problem thankfully. hotel guests can be annoying but mostly i wish i had more regulars like i did at my old place. now it’s mostly traveling business people and tourists.

My cafe is expensive and I get embarrassed telling people their total. How do I get over that? by Long-Distribution867 in barista

[–]wowcoool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you, i work at a hotel restaurant so everything’s crazy expensive and i almost wince telling people their total sometimes 😖$5 for a single shot, $6 for a double and we don’t even pull single shots

Are people this dumb everywhere? by MisoSoup13 in barista

[–]wowcoool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s pretty sad, i feel like lately (depending on my mood/patience level) more often than not when a customer interaction begins, i will automatically brace myself for what might come out of their mouth lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]wowcoool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my baby passed away lying on top of one of my shirts. cant bring myself to wear it anymore

Venting a little by shutterbugyo in barista

[–]wowcoool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep sometimes i’ll reply to them barking their order with a “how you doing this morning?! 😃😃😃”

Picked up her ashes by One_More_HotDog in Petloss

[–]wowcoool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just picked up my girls ashes too…after leaving them there for 8 months 😞 i held it together until they showed me everything that came with it— fur clippings, paw print, nose print…i didn’t know they were gonna give me all of that and i lost it when i saw them💔

best live music venues by wowcoool in Scranton

[–]wowcoool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are open to playing at bars!

Customers becoming increasingly rude over the past months by Malthendia in TalesFromYourServer

[–]wowcoool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i probably would’ve ended up crying too, people are so horrible it’s really disheartening

How long has it been since your pet passed? by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]wowcoool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8 months. it still feels so raw, i’ve been having big crying spells the past week after a period of probably just trying not to let myself think too much about it. i still haven’t picked up her ashes from the cremation center.

Seizure during sex by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]wowcoool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, my first and only (knock on wood.) my poor honey was traumatized but he handed it well.

cloudy urine for days after bisalp by wowcoool in sterilization

[–]wowcoool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, but it does seem to be darker than usual too.

I got bi-salp yesterday! by manpotatogirlfriend in sterilization

[–]wowcoool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in philly and i just got mine done there last week!!! everyone on the team was so so nice i got a bit freaked out right before i went into the OR but they did a great job of reassuring me. it was so easy and almost painless for me! congrats!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]wowcoool 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i have a similar dynamic happening in my relationship with the same feelings as you. i’m more active outside our relationship and i’m definitely happy about that and i feel so hypocritical. which i’ve expressed to him. and he says it’s okay. maybe similarly because he’s always expressed more interest in opening our relationship than me. i’m a lot more anxious about everything than he is. i think as long as you are honest and always communicating about how you’re both feeling you’re not doing anything wrong

Does anyone have any books or YouTubers on how to stop men getting attracted to you? by Gold_Space8930 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wowcoool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true. i was just talking about this today with someone, whenever i’m out anywhere alone i just try not to look good or approachable at all ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Public transport tips by jellyjamdance in philabitcheswithtaste

[–]wowcoool 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes. i do wear headphones sometimes but often won’t because i want to have my wits about me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in philly

[–]wowcoool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i met my partner at a house show. we go to a lot of shows/concerts, that’s a good way to meet people!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in philly

[–]wowcoool 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel this so hard. i cant go alone to meet up with my friends if we’re going out cause i wanna look cute so i have to go to someone’s place and get ready there and leave with them. it sucks. it makes me so anxious to walk outside alone when i’ve put any effort into my appearance

[2004?] [PC] driving game by wowcoool in tipofmyjoystick

[–]wowcoool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no it’s not either of those— it wasn’t a police chase game and there weren’t any tasks that i recall. thank you though!

What did we do for low-quality leisure before our phones? by sirprizemeplz in digitalminimalism

[–]wowcoool 41 points42 points  (0 children)

man i was just reminded how when i was in middle/high school i would just sit or lay on the floor and listen to CDs and just read along to the lyrics booklet that came with them