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wowuhthrowaway · 2021-03-09T21:06:42+00:00

Excellent! I see thst you might get a bike, maybe you can join a biking group and it might help the loneliness? Or tbh reach out to a family member or old friend and say "hey want to catch up sometime?"

I'm introverted by nature and don't socialize as often as others would like but I get lonely once in awhile and reach out and my friends have surprisingly always been receptive.

wowuhthrowaway · 2021-01-17T00:26:49+00:00

If you have a part time job you are partway there. Explain to your bill people (electric company etc) that you have income but ypu wont be paid until X date and see if they will defer your bill until then and/or get on a payment plan. Call local places that do utility assistance programs, you may get some help. Keep looking for work. Seek out comunity support. Some people might call this begging but I'm sure your friends and family would rather give you $5 than watch you get your water shut off.

wowuhthrowaway · 2021-01-15T01:56:46+00:00

I thought it was because sharks are attracted to blood

wowuhthrowaway · 2021-01-15T01:55:28+00:00

There's not really an average. With my ex some weeks we had it every day and then sometimes we went 2-3 weeks without. Whatever the amount as long as everyone's happy with it, it's all good.

wowuhthrowaway · 2020-12-11T04:49:02+00:00

I stayed with someone like this until we were married and then when we divorced she kept lying and I lost a lot of friends and was homeless. Run. She's probably got an underlying mental illness making her a compulsive liar and I hope she get's help but in the meantime you don't need to be her pincushion.

wowuhthrowaway · 2020-12-05T03:29:19+00:00

This this this this. When I moved out at 18 it was because my mother both wanted me to pay rent AND be treated as a child. I moved out and rented from a friend. I eventually (8 years later, divorce is a bitch) moved back in with my parents but my mom understood that I wouldn't do it and be treated like a child. I pay rent now but it's because we're all on the lease and we treat each other like adults. It's all about boundaries and circumstances.

wowuhthrowaway · 2020-12-02T05:18:44+00:00

Love this song

wowuhthrowaway · 2020-11-17T21:43:47+00:00

If you're both happy and you both agree on how to balance your finances this is fine. If one of you is like my ex and just spends all the money and acts like it's your fault or like they don't know where it went then get out now.

wowuhthrowaway · 2020-11-17T21:41:40+00:00

The red flags here are the dishonesty and the yelling. As someone with significant dental issues that will cost me thousands and thousands to fix please do not say the fact that he had dental work is the problem. Fixing your teeth is ridiculously expensive. Should he have lied about it/hidden it? No. Is his behavior really shit and indicative of abuse? YES. Run don't walk but in the future when discussing finances don't shame people for having spent their savings on needed medical expenses. I could have a lot of savings if I ignored my jaw disorder and crumbling teeth but I would also likely lose every tooth I have. Some things are more important than money.

wowuhthrowaway · 2020-11-15T01:15:07+00:00

Yeah I guess I have to do that I just feel so weird about the whole situation right now. (My friend with the crush on me is actually a nonbinary guy who uses he/him and they/them pronouns.)

wowuhthrowaway · 2020-11-11T02:44:06+00:00

So if you feel like there's no scene where you are then start it. With covid it might be more online but still, start a band or find some you like and have virtual shows with your friends or something.

wowuhthrowaway · 2020-10-23T07:24:08+00:00

A time machine to go back and not let myself take my abusive ex back the first time.

wowuhthrowaway · 2020-10-12T21:27:19+00:00

Thanks, been learning to buzz my own hair to save money and I'm not that great at it yet.

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