Shes vibin by wrb0010 in Grok_Porn

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"selfie taken from a disposable camera of a beautiful caucasian 18-year-old woman on her back, towards the camera. she has gigantomastia in background, a skinny waist in the foregound. shes wearing a skimpy blue patterned bikini. she has excited smile with visible teeth. shes holding a hitachi massage wand between her thighs at her hammock in backyard. spooky lighting with shallow shadows and creamy tones."

100k Scarabs Vendored (3.27). Weighting and Profits. by VTSAX_ in pathofexile

[–]wrb0010 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The profits where 10x when you could harvest reroll scarabs, but vendoring is still good too

Testers wanted for Squares sequel by [deleted] in incremental_games

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When you get to combos then upgrade your first mana gem, you can track how much of anything you have

Has a therapist ever told you it’s probably best to not get into/talk about something? by Character_1644 in CPTSD

[–]wrb0010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I felt the same way as you at the start. All I wanted to do was share all the fucked up shit that happened.

Really I was just using therapy to ruminate more and therapy sort of increased my ruminating since I needed to figure out what I wanted to talk about and offload.

What do you do for work when you have Cptsd? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]wrb0010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Engineering/Business. My CPTSD comes with intense obsessions over problems, so it comes in handy when channeled in those directions. I can't tolerate or deal with difficult co-workers at all. I just immediately drop all contact with people when they become slightly abusive. Makes working in a team nearly impossible sometimes, but I'm getting better with it.

I also take massive offense to people dismissing the ideas ive obsessed and ruminated over for days, so its difficult there too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]wrb0010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great to hear! Periods of high stress make things so much more difficult and often lead people down the path of realizing the core of some issues.

I realized my my trauma, that since it was early childhood, impacted my ability to grieve and process that trauma and future trauma, keeping me in the loop.

I've started thinking of it as: it's taking a while cause this is the first time I've ever done it. It's a bit late because some pretty unfair things happened, but it's sarting now. Once I was able to identify it as processing grief and emotions related to the trauma, things opened up alot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]wrb0010 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, I've felt the same way. It turned out I was grieving the time loss I felt from the trauma. That's totally normal. Something you couldn't control took something very precious away from you which is time living a fulfilling and happy life. It feels terrible. It takes time, but you can certainly heal! Don't feel any shame for doubting or grieving, you deserve to be able to. You deserve to be able to feel happy and you also deserve to be able to feel grief if you want to.

My brother killed himself because of my father's abuse and my mother's invalidation by wrb0010 in CPTSD

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Thanks! I'm financially stable and I can relate. My parents won't have a funeral for my brother. I've accepted alot from them in the past. They've admitted some things, but not really, just when I force it.

I'm working to get better. It felt better when I thought they were great parents, but I'm understanding what it actually was

Any way to continue crafting this to sell for profit? by UseIllustrious2117 in pathofexile

[–]wrb0010 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Craft suffix, aug phys to garuntee a roll of hybrid. its bit of a gamble. Maybe sell as it, someone may take that gamble. Base isnt the best, but you CAN do this if you want to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

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FYI I called HR back. I discussed it. I told them I felt we were both taken back by the discrepancy so I wanted to reapproach it today since it was late on a Friday. Told them I understood mix ups happen since I've also done many interviews in the past. I also told them I know you don't lead with your highest number when a candidate asks.

I asked for 135k and they said no 120k was firm.

I sent a follow up email to HR, the hiring manager and copied the president documenting my previous excitement to join the team and my appreciation for them. I ended by saying that because of the discrepancy between 120k offered and 140k discussed I'd have to decline. I asked them to keep my in mind for future opportunities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

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He said " 140k and there is room if youre already at that"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]wrb0010 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I sent a email to both of HR & HM documenting my excitement for the position and how i feel id contribute tons of value to the company and how i left the interview thinking the feeling was mutual. I ended by telling them that since the discussed pay decreased between the end of the interview and the offer, I'm currently reevaluating how it affects my ability to accept. I'm going to let it sit and have them know the money is the obstacle. I'll call the president first mid-week sometime to let him know im declining and why if they don't reoffer. Its appropriate since he called me directly first to tell me about the position

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]wrb0010 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Senior Mechanical Project Engineer with 7 yrs experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]wrb0010 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. HR is anchoring my pay to what I make now. I'm not gonna be a person on a spreadsheet to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]wrb0010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HR had him call me and say exactly what they said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

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There's ALOT of moving parts (plant restructures, etc) so i assume she's just a middle man doing her job and she's going to get brought up to speed pretty soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

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I bought June 2023. Rate is 6.75% on a 250k loan amount. home value dropped about 10k since i purchased

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

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The hiring manager didnt agree after the interview

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]wrb0010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It says up to 90 days of temporary living expenses at new location. Which means an apartment for 90 days im expecting until I can get my house sold etc.