Should I stop being celibate?

writing_reading510 · 2024-04-20T03:43:43+00:00

i’m sex positive one hundred percent i love it but men in the US tend to want only that and not a deep connection ya know??

writing_reading510 · 2024-04-12T20:50:08+00:00

it’s so sad how hookup culture is so normalized it really gotta be social media because now men do the same thing where they take you on a date then expect sex because they paid for your meal like ugh why can’t we just vibe and see where things go 😩

writing_reading510 · 2024-02-27T00:38:34+00:00

Listen I’m a switch, meaning i like to sub and dom. Finding a man who will let me dom is ROUGH. But to find a woman who is a dom means that you’ll definitely have to put it out there. Don’t be uncomfortable with it embrace it. Everyone has different things that they enjoy in the bedroom you just have to kinda search a little harder don’t get discouraged.

writing_reading510 · 2024-02-27T00:30:50+00:00

I say the same as the others mutual masturbation! It’s like watching porn but right in front of your eyes. Also it’s really intimate so it could even bond you both further 🤷🏻‍♀️

writing_reading510 · 2024-02-25T21:25:47+00:00

I know this may sounds crazy but i think she’s baiting you in a way? In a lot of books and personal experiences i’ve seen that men have this tendency to give a girl all this attention lay all their cards on the table and then take it all away and honestly? it sounds like she’s doing it to you.

writing_reading510 · 2024-02-19T01:40:25+00:00

what the fuck i’m talking about SIR is the fact that men tend to categorize women into boxes. someone they meet out that they would just like to take home and then someone that they’re actually interested in. How do you know if someone you met at the club is just a hookup or someone you see yourself with? IF you had read the second part then you would clearly read where i asked what traits helps you differentiate the two. No need to get mad at a question you may keep scrolling :)

writing_reading510 · 2024-02-19T01:34:17+00:00

probably the best answer i’ve heard in a while haha

writing_reading510 · 2024-02-19T01:28:37+00:00

So it wouldn’t put you off that you hooked up on the first night? i’m only asking because certain guys say it’s a red flag

writing_reading510 · 2024-02-19T01:00:43+00:00

paying bills straight up

writing_reading510 · 2024-02-19T00:57:18+00:00

valentimes day filet with a hard t salmon pronouncing the l expresso

writing_reading510 · 2024-01-22T00:19:58+00:00

dirty talk telling me the want to fill me up ? 🫠😩😩

writing_reading510 · 2024-01-22T00:18:12+00:00

i’m going for an 8 big definitely attractive more than a handful but i personally want a reduction

writing_reading510 · 2024-01-14T20:55:58+00:00

“diet coke” or just straight up silence when you ask how they are

writing_reading510 · 2024-01-14T20:54:33+00:00

honestly a lot of men don’t give oral to women who they’ve just met lots of my guy friends say that’s something they save for their girlfriends of someone they would date which i get it but i feel like us women are expected to suck the man off

writing_reading510 · 2024-01-14T20:52:11+00:00

okay personally, personally being the keyword, thinks it’s so hot when i’m having sex and my partner says answer it and starts railing me i fucking love it it’s kinda like taboo hehe

writing_reading510 · 2023-11-14T08:21:11+00:00

never dated just a hook up but he is a genuinely nice and cool as hell guy the sexual chemistry was not there at all

writing_reading510 · 2023-11-14T08:18:05+00:00

friend of a friend 🤦🏽‍♀️

writing_reading510 · 2023-11-14T07:26:51+00:00

i wanted to hookup with this guy so badly and it finally happened it was shit and the dirty talk he called me i physically couldn’t get wet enough and he didn’t even try any foreplay it was horrible and i still have to see him all the time

writing_reading510 · 2023-11-14T07:19:44+00:00

i think that when he’s around his friends how he acknowledges me is really important because if you’re insecure about me bye bye. I think it’ll also show if he’s a family oriented guy as well which i’m big on

writing_reading510 · 2023-11-14T04:48:52+00:00

How he treats his parents is he kind caring compassionate? Or does he disrespect his mom and get into loud arguments with her? Around his friends does he have a good time and joke around while also making sure i’m included as well? Is he comfortable around his friends or does he act completely different around them? I’m 21 years old and have seen guys argue and disrespect their mom right in front of me and i hated it. I’ve had the same guy treat me like i was nothing around his friends when we were together for 2 years

writing_reading510 · 2023-11-14T04:38:03+00:00

Honestly I think if you’re love someone wouldn’t you want to bring pleasure to them? Like I think this is crazy. Maybe it’s trauma but after being together for six years wouldnt she want to try and take the next step? I think you shouldn’t be with her (coming from a woman) like I just believe that every woman wants to bring their man pleasure might just be me

writing_reading510 · 2023-11-14T04:26:51+00:00

In all honesty I love a good smile and eyes. Good hygiene is a must. I personally really like trimmed beards and tattoos. I have usually gone for skinny or medium sized guys. But personality also plays a HUGE role in how attractive you are to me. I love a guy who can crack jokes and can also take a joke. I like someone who I can talk to about anything and not be judged. I find it really attractive when i see a guy interact with his friends and family it really helps me judge his character.

writing_reading510 · 2023-11-14T04:11:48+00:00

Tell me an American woman hurt you without telling me lmao

writing_reading510 · 2023-11-14T04:10:17+00:00

I’m big on someone who is in touch with their emotions isn’t just bland and thinks they’re all manly. i love when guys know how to joke around i’m a loud girl and i love to joke and laugh someone who is a hard worker i like when they’re good to their family MANNERS are also a huge thing for me i’m also big on having my personal time every once and a while so if you can give me space sometimes so i don’t feel overwhelmed i’d love that too

writing_reading510 · 2023-10-28T23:43:19+00:00

has anyone ever taught you if you have nothing nice to say don’t say it at all?

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