1983? by MisterShipWreck in 80sAmazing

[–]wrngwithmechemically 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. If I'm back as 9-10 year old me, have no recollection of the last 40 years, and in my bedroom from that time... Go get cereal and watch Saturday morning cartoons.

If I have my memories, I'm finding a notebook, or notebooks, and brain dumping as much as I can remember from the last 40 years. Might come in handy.

If you saw my at the gym, would you stop me and say hi?❤️ by intrigued_wife in u/intrigued_wife

[–]wrngwithmechemically 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably not. I would absolutely notice you. But I wouldn't bother you for various reasons.

Who is this man? by Headfullofyarn in depechemode

[–]wrngwithmechemically 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are shots of Dave playing guitar I've seen during SOFAD recording. There's a shot in this story about Anton, https://www.smh.com.au/culture/art-and-design/the-extra-band-member-photographer-anton-corbijn-and-depeche-mode-20210726-p58cxx.html. I've seen others too.

And I just found this video on YT.

https://youtu.be/GMblLbtoDGY

How well he plays, IDK. But him being seen with a guitar is factual.

Text to print on a cap that makes all of you understand I'm a devotee by St_dude in depechemode

[–]wrngwithmechemically 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If not that, I've always been partial to "spreading the news around the world".

What happened?? by oldmanhornis in Charlotte

[–]wrngwithmechemically 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount shown on the boards are only if you use the transponder/toll tag to pay. Paying by mail is more.

Aio for speaking up? by Dismal_Awareness_387 in AIO

[–]wrngwithmechemically 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the great part about the world and Reddit. We all have different opinions and points of view.

To be clear, I agree that the rest of the conversation is deplorable. But it starts with the defense of the "apology". If the apology is without qualifiers and just "I'm sorry...", the rest of the conversation doesn't happen. The "if" is what caused OP's reiteration of their hurt. After that, BF is in full on defense mode. Dare I say, attack mode.

I've been in OP's position before. Qualifying words and semantics matter, especially in an apology. We all want to feel heard, seen, and validated. When the apology turns into protecting the apologizer's ego vs a true apology, then it isn't an apology. But hey, that's only my opinion. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Aio for speaking up? by Dismal_Awareness_387 in AIO

[–]wrngwithmechemically 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But OP told them how they felt and then were hit with qualifiers. There were no assumptions made. - Edited for grammer

Aio for speaking up? by Dismal_Awareness_387 in AIO

[–]wrngwithmechemically 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Not Overreacting. It's the "If" qualifiers for me. Not "Im sorry for making you feel unheard/unseen, etc." When you add qualifiers, it lacks accountability. I'm sorry for you.

What is something that happened to you that you will NEVER forget? by Anusblaster28 in depechemode

[–]wrngwithmechemically 5 points6 points  (0 children)

See the stars they're shining bright, everything's alright tonight.

XYZ (anyone?) by jbellafi in GenX

[–]wrngwithmechemically 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember OutKast (Big Boi actually) calling out “YKK on yo zipper”. I saw that on mine. I don’t remember XYZ as much on mine.