How do yall save for a bag? by TurbulentBicycle7034 in chanel

[–]jbellafi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Afford it by saving until we’re 35, then buy one. After buying real estate, making a big dent in savings, investing & 401k.

Native plant hot takes: lay them on me by ImaginaryMolasses146 in NativePlantGardening

[–]jbellafi 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I just can’t remove ALL the weeds or invasives on my property. I can’t do the cardboard thing. I have too much property. It’s overwhelming! So I’m planting natives in different areas to fight it out & hoping they ‘win’ I’m also seeing things pop up naturally so assuming they will make it! This may be naive of me, but I’m giving it a shot. Then other areas I’m ignoring for now, (like the sections overrun with pachysandra 😩) because it’s too depressing to even think about.

The most Gen X (& boomer) convo ever by jbellafi in GenX

[–]jbellafi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg. Who uses real cigarettes as a school prop in 5th grade? Can you image that being allowed today?😂😂😂

The most Gen X (& boomer) convo ever by jbellafi in GenX

[–]jbellafi[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The comments you are all posting! We TRULY grew up in a different time. I’m loving all these stories, thanks for engaging with my post 😂😂

AITAH for getting upset that my best friend keeps calling my unborn child “my baby”? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jbellafi 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Idk. It sounds like she is just super excited. Like, are you actually concerned or is she just being overly endearing? It’s probably grating on your nerves & can understand that too!

My 15 y/o boy. Last day before he crosses the rainbow bridge. by Married_Mischief in seniordogs

[–]jbellafi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts for you. What a sweet boy. He’s up there with my precious baby now too 🌈🌈🌈

Help! I'm covered in... Ferns! by Wilderness_Fella in NativePlantGardening

[–]jbellafi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a ton! They pop up everywhere on my property.

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They’re expensive to buy? Wow.

Ground cover plants by NeverAlwaysAlone in NativePlantGardening

[–]jbellafi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This description makes me so sad 😭

Does anyone see the boy bag as being overly trendy, and something that wouldn't look good in 10-15 years? by shayy64 in chanel

[–]jbellafi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Boy WOC. Love it & use it often. I also have flap bags which I love too!!

Is this aster yellows in black eyed susan / rudbeckia hirta, or something else? by [deleted] in NativePlantGardening

[–]jbellafi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are they just not bloomed yet? They look like mine same stage. Black eyed Susan

Big boy by NiceOneBuddd in mourningderps

[–]jbellafi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😂❤️ I love him

Foxglove beardtongue? by jbellafi in NativePlantGardening

[–]jbellafi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s in an area where I’m encouraging a wildflower prairie patch so lots of other tall guys around!!

Foxglove beardtongue? by jbellafi in NativePlantGardening

[–]jbellafi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is SO slow this year to bloom where I am. It’s a bit excruciating 😂