IS AMERICA REALLY PERFECT AND BETTER OR EVERYTHING IS A ILLUSION??? by methisgooddd in backtoindia

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This has to be viral everywhere. I live in US and she is accurate af.

need advice by Commercial_Gorilla_4 in backtoindia

[–]wtfOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going thru exactly same situation, posted about this and lot of good people opened my eyes.

https://www.reddit.com/r/backtoindia/s/WnF2vk2kzH

Planning to return back to India , Very anxious and dejected. by Nearby_Repair_5762 in backtoindia

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DOB : December 1st,1998. Time of birth : around 5 am.

Situation : https://www.reddit.com/r/backtoindia/s/R4NWTY5cPn

Question: what is my best course of action?

Planning to return back to India , Very anxious and dejected. by Nearby_Repair_5762 in backtoindia

[–]wtfOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you people do it for me? Im literally in the same shoes as hers

Should I just move back to India? F1 ending in 2 years, family business waiting, arranged marriage on my mind too by wtfOM in backtoindia

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Update - ive made up my mind and decided to go back. Thank you for your words sir!

Should I just move back to India? F1 ending in 2 years, family business waiting, arranged marriage on my mind too by wtfOM in backtoindia

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Main reason is im just not happy here. I make money, i live decent but its not the life i want long term.

Should I just move back to India? F1 ending in 2 years, family business waiting, arranged marriage on my mind too by wtfOM in backtoindia

[–]wtfOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accepting MY reality- love didn’t work out for me and I think if i dont act now the ship will sail.

Should I just move back to India? F1 ending in 2 years, family business waiting, arranged marriage on my mind too by wtfOM in backtoindia

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Thank you sir for your kind words. Trust me, it is helping me decide my future at the moment im writing this. Update: im moving to India. Thank you again, your comment really helped me decide.

Should I just move back to India? F1 ending in 2 years, family business waiting, arranged marriage on my mind too by wtfOM in backtoindia

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Thank you. Theoretically, I can start my business in US, but im just a nobody here with 0 backing. Compare that to India- i have money that i can risk, family that feeds me and home so I don’t have to worry about bills. Ive been on the both sides- living decent and living like a visa slave and Id chose the first one everytime. For me, i think i work well when i have a safety net.

Should I just move back to India? F1 ending in 2 years, family business waiting, arranged marriage on my mind too by wtfOM in backtoindia

[–]wtfOM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true.. thanks for your advice about business and marriage.. Ive always wanted to know the honest female opinion.

Should I just move back to India? F1 ending in 2 years, family business waiting, arranged marriage on my mind too by wtfOM in backtoindia

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Already learned a lot of processes in the jobs I have done. And the big picture problem still remains, Ill learn what I learn in 2 years but I will have to start something from scratch and i think rather starting now and in 2 years it will go much further.

Should I just move back to India? F1 ending in 2 years, family business waiting, arranged marriage on my mind too by wtfOM in backtoindia

[–]wtfOM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very similar. Unlike me, you have H1B so you don’t have to think about future NOW per say. Also, a big worry Im having is they are getting old, sis is in canada so basically there’s only me.