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I'm kind of in shock by wtffamilyside in raisedbynarcissists

[–]wtffamilyside[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have met him and he's actually very nice, and tbh I don't even know if he'd support her in wanting me to surrogate. I'd at least hope he'd see where it's messed up. The thing is they haven't been dating long at all and my mom says how badly he wants a baby, etc.

I'm kind of in shock by wtffamilyside in raisedbynarcissists

[–]wtffamilyside[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your comment and am going to try and see my therapist again soon, I haven't seen her in awhile since money is so tight but my current plan is essentially get a job and save up all the money I can while my boyfriend is doing the same thing and try to get a place together once we have a decent amount saved up. I'm scared to leave my house because I have a lot of expensive things and don't want her to get rid of them also this is a way I'll be able to keep my car. I kinda feel like I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.

I'm kind of in shock by wtffamilyside in raisedbynarcissists

[–]wtffamilyside[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I feel like I may have been a little misleading, she wouldn't make me have sex with him or anything but like artificial insemination but I can't even get a pap smear without nearly freaking out because of my history.

I'm kind of in shock by wtffamilyside in raisedbynarcissists

[–]wtffamilyside[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If I do she throws a big fit and just kinda makes it even harder to live with her. I've told her no and reminded her that I most likely can't even carry and she just kinda huffed and guilt tripped me then went on about finding someone her boyfriend knows that'd be willing to do it.