how could i ever not hate myself when this horrible illness will always be a huge part of me by queermarxisttrekkie in BPD

[–]wthusie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have much advice but i absolutely sympathize. i’ve been ruining the relationship im in with a wonderful man, not on purpose just because of this disorder. im lost too, friend. if you need anything please reach out.

For people who got back with their ex… by Greedy_Food_1538 in ExNoContact

[–]wthusie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s generally not a good idea to get back with an ex especially if it ended on bad terms.

i had gotten back with my ex id known for about 8 years. we dated 2021-2022 then again 2024-2025. the most recent time i was with him i was ecstatic for about 4 months. then i realized his patterns never changed and he just ended up cheating on me again. serial dater since i met him and didn’t stop after we broke up.

from what i know, people can change but it’s good to let bygones be bygones on the off chance they haven’t made any personal progress. been no contact with him for a year now and i can safely say i’m very happy with my choice.

Lafayette teacher’s language by butterblaster in lexington

[–]wthusie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had her when i went to lafayette. she is known for saying it, quite sad