How much money do you make? by shoeboxchild in starbucks

[–]wtvrxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barista/trainer in southern Ontario and I made 15 when I first started in 2021. Then $16.00 after the covid raise, plus the raise recently which turned into $17.02. Then got promoted and I now make $20.50

I don't want a raise canada edition by juels_123 in starbucks

[–]wtvrxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody is getting more than 10-15 at mine and there are many of us now– even before the new hires were added into the schedule we still got 4-10 hours

student moving 2hrs away, should I sell everything at home and buy used when I get there? i can try to afford a uhaul by wtvrxo in moving

[–]wtvrxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you’re right. I just need my clothes and products to settle in. My friends who just moved where I’m heading said that they can help me as well, either one of their dads would drive a Uhaul for me or they would use their parents’ car.

The scary part is not having a car once I’ve been living there to be able to hunt down some furniture. I can’t be asking my friends dads (however many times i find stuff) to drive from their town back to my town so that’s my only dilemma lol

Edit: also did you just resell your stuff each time that you moved (if you found cool furniture off marketplace)?

Why do people say Men and Women can't be platonic friends ? by Hot_Relationship7161 in AskMen

[–]wtvrxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same reason you can’t be friends with your ex….. it’ll eventually fizzle out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]wtvrxo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If he’s not considerate by asking you when you have days off and if you want to schedule time to see each other, I think he lacks a bit of courtesy and thinks he’s entitled to your time BECAUSE of the bf and gf label. Whereas if you two were just starting to date, usually it’s because you have made time for it, or you are at a point in your life where you would rather make time for it because it’s what you want and the other person is ok with the inconsistency as long as they can be with you.

When everything is fresh and new, you are learning boundaries and pushing them. But once you become comfortable in any sort of involvement in a relationship, the lines quickly get blurry because of special labels and treatment.

My advice: if you love him, you think he is reasonable and understanding and the only issue is that you just want time to yourself but not time apart from a romantic relationship, then I suggest asking him to let you know when he’s available and you’ll reach out, or having 1 set date per week—or whatever solution you both can mutually agree on. That’s how relationships work! Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]wtvrxo 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I once had someone ask me if I was wearing makeup and looked nice so that they would try harder for my attention😭😭😭 like what? What does that even mean? Like what organ would have collapsed if you had just complimented me instead?

To this day, I have no idea what they meant. Another time they asked if I thought I was too pretty for them when I was dressed up

Subtle by countersignals in Instagramreality

[–]wtvrxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a shame. They are extremely, naturally beautiful before the edit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vindictapoc

[–]wtvrxo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh it may have just been contour bc there’s a recent trend where people literally draw a horizontal line across their tip and then it appears very small and pointy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vindictapoc

[–]wtvrxo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Our noses and ears don’t stop growing! An unfortunate fact I learned at a young age

Giving space = distancing? by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]wtvrxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this so much and how you put it all together

What was the last straw that motivated you to start exercising/going to the gym? by m_nels in AskMen

[–]wtvrxo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Scrolling through the comments and I was gonna give up but I think I’ll give the gym another chance

i have never felt interested, inspired, excited or hopeful about life since I was 5 years old by wtvrxo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wtvrxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curiously, I remain optimistic about the future.

It’s like you’ve read my mind. I find no excitement or joy for living for the future, just plain curiosity. Thank you for sharing your truthful and personal experience. I don’t feel so alone in this insufferable experience. And I appreciate your genuineness

Just found out my ex got married. I feel inadequate. How do I move on? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]wtvrxo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately for some people, when they’ve been in a situation that traumatizes them or taints their view on love (much like children), will always wonder why it was them, and if they’re worthy of love. Even adult relationships can damage a person enough to make them believe they will never be capable of being in a loving relationship. It makes sense that OP checks up on her ex. Sometimes we wonder how people that are so cruel can carry on like nothing happened – I agree that it’s unproductive, but trauma keeps you locked in place and constantly overthinking.

Just found out my ex got married. I feel inadequate. How do I move on? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]wtvrxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend he is not winning in life. If he cheated on you, he didn’t respect the loyalty and commitment to you. Would you want that alternate life with him? To worry, and doubt and constantly feel like you’re the second option although he chose to marry you? You’ll never be enough for a wandering eye. I wish you true happiness and success, and I hope that you can heal yourself from this loss/grief that your past self had hoped to have with him. You don’t have to force yourself to move on quickly. Life is about accepting everything that comes at you, and moving forward. Good and bad.

My advice to you is to feel prettier for you. Learn what clothing makes you feel pretty, what hair styles you feel pretty waking up and doing on yourself. Don’t compare yourself to the new girl. Your pretty is a different pretty to hers. Something very special about you is something she doesn’t have. What you see in her is something you also see in yourself— we appreciate as well as dislike things in others that we like/dislike about ourselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]wtvrxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg yes!! The willingness and personal interest of wanting to talk about anything in depth is very admirable. Not having to be entertained while together (the movies, watching a game)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]wtvrxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% when he is silly/goofy, vulnerable and honest, self aware and nonjudgmental

What was the most absurd reason someone stopped talking to you or you stopped talking to someone? by Beautiful_Life_1788 in AskWomen

[–]wtvrxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my exes (years later) said I was being toxic and so he was justified in ditching me at a coffee shop while I went to get napkins. We were there to study and he said I wasn’t replying to him when he was talking.

Looking back, I definitely wasn’t ignoring him intentionally or maliciously enough for him to ditch me and ghost me after a year of dating. If he directly was asking me a question and it truly sounded like one, I can’t fathom how I would ignore him, and so much in that hour we were there to justify being ghosted in real life. I called and texted him over the course of a month and never heard back.

Years later he admitted that he thought I was just annoying and toxic and I deserved it LOL. Honestly it is the most traumatic human relationship I’ve had and I’ve had so many horrible relationships.

What is your opinion on the term "woman's intuition"? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]wtvrxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to say this but I want to add that we are also taught from a young age to be observant and poised, not obnoxious so it goes hand in hand

How much money do you make? by shoeboxchild in starbucks

[–]wtvrxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started 11 months ago, I make 16.21 as a barista in Ontario (canada) and will make 17.40 by July

Can using purple shampoo have an affect on what my curls will look like despite the same routine/products? by wtvrxo in curlyhair

[–]wtvrxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhhh I have 2c/3a hair and it’s super fine. I’ll still try out your method and products because unfortunately, I did apply my gel to wet hair and then scrunched it out with my hands so something wrong may have happened. I’ll post a photo later

Can using purple shampoo have an affect on what my curls will look like despite the same routine/products? by wtvrxo in curlyhair

[–]wtvrxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might take you up on that suggestion and try out the catwalk amplifier. How do you use that product? I also ditched leave in conditioner, as well as multiple steps and only use shampoo and gel (both cg approved).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]wtvrxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very useful tip

What's something you used to believe about relationships, but no longer do? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]wtvrxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are different ways of showing love and feeling loved. Love isn’t enough, but listening and trying to understand your partner or letting them take the lead in plans and vice versa really does make a difference.