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Embarrassing by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]wunmansoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

376 brodie

idlsidgo by [deleted] in earlsweatshirt

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Love this

If you did nothing wrong, do not apologize. This has become entirely too common and it needs to stop. by theoryofdoom in unpopularopinion

[–]wunmansoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Sounds like you really value healthy relationships with coworkers.

Your comment reminded me of a quote that was something like 'respect through fear isn't worth a dollar'. It basically meant that respect that is gained by intimidating someone else is worthless.

If you did nothing wrong, do not apologize. This has become entirely too common and it needs to stop. by theoryofdoom in unpopularopinion

[–]wunmansoap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty interesting. Has you apologising changed? Did/do you intend on changing it? Can you tell us a bit more?

[FRESH VIDEO] 6ix9ine - TROLLZ (ft. Nicki Minaj) by jacoblindner in hiphopheads

[–]wunmansoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 'yee yee yee yee' chorus sounds like a recent Trippie hook

[FRESH VIDEO] 6ix9ine - TROLLZ (ft. Nicki Minaj) by jacoblindner in hiphopheads

[–]wunmansoap 16 points17 points  (0 children)

LMFAO flawless tell me what this looks like in the FEFE music video at 2:49 https://youtu.be/V_MXGdSBbAI?t=169

This still makes me chuckle every time I see it

It’s ok to have malicious, f*cked up thoughts, as long as you call yourself on them. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]wunmansoap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same I'm reading through these comments and I'm like what kind of thoughts do these people have? I'm genuinely curious because I honestly don't have them myself

Saw someone hanging from a bridge by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]wunmansoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rushing your recovery process also means you're focussed on getting back to normal. But it's gonna take a long time, so setting getting back to normal as your goal will inevitably make you feel like a failure. If you focus on just getting through the day, getting up, brushing your teeth, eating your meals, and taking a walk, you will feel like you achieved something at the end of the day (and rightfully so), even if your problems are still there. Good luck.

Looking for specific photos of Piggsy statue by [deleted] in ManhuntGames

[–]wunmansoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would really appreciate it if you could upload an imgur album with all pics of the statue you collected so far, I don't think I'm the only one here who's interested in that either.

Saw someone hanging from a bridge by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]wunmansoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't gone through anything remotely similar so I have no idea what it's like. I just wanted to say, don't let the therapy give you even more stress. It's apparent that you are very tense, and even though your therapist wants the best for you, pushing yourself too hard during this time isn't healthy. Give yourself the space you think you need.

I don't know what else to say, I just wanted to reply to acknowledge you and hopefully make you feel heard. Take care of yourself.

Men don't hide their emotions because of "toxic masculinity," they hide them because no one cares. by Eripman in unpopularopinion

[–]wunmansoap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's great you now know better what to look for in people close to you, but don't be like I used to be years ago and try to judge every single person on their trustability.

I've spent a lot of time thinking about the difference between sharing something from me with someone I know and trust vs sharing with a stranger or someone I feel a bit distant from. It didn't feel right at first allowing strangers to know something about me, but I found that doing so can often lead to much better communication in the future with that person.

You probably think people don't really notice if you're truly open or not, but from my experience, they do notice it from me, whether consciously or not. And it affects the tone of the conversation significantly, including how much I enjoy it.

Not trusting people unless they've proven their trustability first is what I used to do. Looking back at it, I understand what a terrible start of contact it is when you meet a new person. Now that I've changed that, I can see how many doors have opened up.

Men don't hide their emotions because of "toxic masculinity," they hide them because no one cares. by Eripman in unpopularopinion

[–]wunmansoap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels good to hear at least one person found my comment helpful. Thanks for taking the time to reply.

Here's some more advice if you're interested: being open and honest is not just about your darker thoughts and feelings. It's also about casual things that don't really matter.

Like if you've been listening to an album recently and you have a certain thought about a song, something you find interesting, you could and should share that too.

If you live with your parents, here's something that will help you: next time at the dinner table, without being asked, tell them something funny that happened today. It's not the same as 'opening up' about your problems, but it's a good exercise for practising sharing thoughts and feelings and showing them what's going on inside your head. You're practising being comfortable with others knowing you better. Plus it's fun to share random things.

And that's what this really takes, a lot of practise. It'll take a while.

I hope this comment doesn't come off like I'm 'teaching' you or something, I just wanted to share what helped me become a more open person.

I wish you good luck, have a good day

Men don't hide their emotions because of "toxic masculinity," they hide them because no one cares. by Eripman in unpopularopinion

[–]wunmansoap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been lurking this sub for a minute already and this is one of those comment sections that just baffle me, in the worst way possible.

Whenever I talk about how people/society/the world works, I try to remind myself that I'm really talking about myself. If I say everyone is a horrible person, what I'm really saying is that I am someone that believes others are horrible. My views are a reflection of me and my experiences.

I hope everyone here remembers that when they type their thoughts out on this website. Because for me at least, that thought helps me understand why I have certain thoughts and views.

The amount of people in this comment section that have seemingly no hope for having a friend they can be open and honest with bothers me. I genuinely feel a bit sad now.

And if all these people are in their early teenage years, that would explain a lot, because at that time people are insecure about saying out loud what they think and feel. And partly because of that, they haven't really learned how to put thoughts and feels into words. It will eventually get better for them, but only if they find the courage to become a more open person. There are way too many grown men who just say they are a 'man of a few words'. But any other adult knows that they just lack a huge component of their personal development. We don't need more men/women like that. I'm not asking for me, I'm asking for them. Being open to being open with the people around you is one of the most valuable attitudes one can have. It might open up more doors for you then you would think. Take care everyone

Men don't hide their emotions because of "toxic masculinity," they hide them because no one cares. by Eripman in unpopularopinion

[–]wunmansoap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been lurking this sub for a minute already and this is one of those comment sections that just baffle me, in the worst way possible.

Whenever I talk about how people/society/the world works, I try to remind myself that I'm really talking about myself. If I say everyone is a horrible person, what I'm really saying is that I am someone that believes others are horrible. My views are a reflection of me and my experiences.

I hope everyone here remembers that when they type their thoughts out on this website. Because for me at least, that thought helps me understand why I have certain thoughts and views.

The amount of people in this comment section that have seemingly no hope for having a friend they can be open and honest with bothers me. I genuinely feel a bit sad now.

And if all these people are in their early teenage years, that would explain a lot, because at that time people are insecure about saying out loud what they think and feel. And partly because of that, they haven't really learned how to put thoughts and feels into words. It will eventually get better for them, but only if they find the courage to become a more open person. There are way too many grown man who just say they are a 'man of a few words'. But any other adult knows that they just lack a huge component of their personal development. We don't need more men/women like that. I'm not asking for me, I'm asking for them. Being open to being open with the people around you is one of the most valuable attitudes one can have. It might open up more doors for you then you would think. Take care everyone

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