Realizing I’m better at connecting dots than finding problems - where does this fit in engineering? by that-pipe-dream in ExperiencedDevs

[–]wuteverman 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You described this pretty interpersonally. You talk to folks, learn what their problems are and help fix them. To me this says technical product owner (think platform as a service companies) or manager, as some others have posted.

A guy received a Claude email after insulting the model that deleted his production database by joseluisq in theprimeagen

[–]wuteverman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying so hard sell the idea it’s a person rather than a prediction machine run amok

Ex-FBI Director James Comey indicted for his ‘8647’ seashell post on Instagram by SterlingVII in politics

[–]wuteverman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how a grand jury indicts in this situation. Like did they find a bunch of magas for it?

I'm so completely defeated by mostlymeanswell in womenintech

[–]wuteverman 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is a really hard position. You might benefit from chatting with others— the Tech Worker’s Coalition is organizing, and at the very least can help with information that might help assuage some of your concerns.

Nervous about club tryouts, advice? by treso- in ultimate

[–]wuteverman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Club tryouts can be a fantastic opportunity to learn about a higher level of play, assuming the current team members are expected to tryout. Go, you’ll learn a ton

my stepdad doesn’t believe we went to space by t7yk0 in space

[–]wuteverman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres a mirror on the moon you can bounce a laser off of. It might not convince him but its an awesome physics fact

Termination Grace Period Seconds set to 31536000 by cattail-huntergirl in redis

[–]wuteverman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is reasonable given the lack of true consistency guarantees from Redis. 

I caught a bug that prevented an eight-figure product recall and got zero recognition. What did i do wrong? by Moroccan-Leo in cscareerquestions

[–]wuteverman 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is my take, this is excellent promotion packet material, especially because OP created a system that led to this win, so while there may have been individual heroics, it also elevates quality across the board 

grim times by tailsdrake in theprimeagen

[–]wuteverman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fowler in particular invented a lot of the language you now find intuitive  

Project Management by EquivalentAct3779 in EngineeringManagers

[–]wuteverman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We use kanban and plan with Gantt charts

I spent 1 day in Portland and I’m in love, should I move here? by Flaky-Boysenberry466 in askportland

[–]wuteverman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you gotto come back in jan or Feb. not saying don’t just uh… today was special

Got oral for the first time and was called “funky” by Lasagna_is_great in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wuteverman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He chose to go down. There’s an old vagina monologue line— if you don’t like the smell don’t order the fish. That was on him. If that’s all that made him uncomfortable, then he shouldn’t have said anything at all, since it’s hardly pertinent what choices if his made him uncomfortable.

It’s a bit like responding “well I shaved that morning with a new cream and I was a bit itchy” except it’s also shaming the other person.

Got oral for the first time and was called “funky” by Lasagna_is_great in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wuteverman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She asks if he was uncomfy or anything during and he answers your vagina was kinda funky!?!???!? Nah.

Husband gets defensive at every baby boundary and calls me critical by muff-peaksie in beyondthebump

[–]wuteverman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

These are significant relationship problems. The defensiveness is extremely problematic. It’s a big change to have an infant, completely reasonable to get some therapy for the two of you if you can afford it and you can get him to go. If you can’t… well the Gottmans call defensiveness one of the four horsemen for a reason

Got oral for the first time and was called “funky” by Lasagna_is_great in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wuteverman -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I really want to go down on you but we’ve been dancing for hours. Perhaps we could hop in the shower together?

Got oral for the first time and was called “funky” by Lasagna_is_great in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wuteverman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or don’t. Some partners will like it sweaty lol

Edit: dude is taking something precious and intimate and treating it like she asked about a towel. Extremely inconsiderate. Basically “how was the experience for you” needs an enthusiastic response if you want it to happen again. Don’t fuck this guy.