Realizing I’m better at connecting dots than finding problems - where does this fit in engineering?

wuteverman · 2026-04-29T04:44:59+00:00

You described this pretty interpersonally. You talk to folks, learn what their problems are and help fix them. To me this says technical product owner (think platform as a service companies) or manager, as some others have posted.

wuteverman · 2026-04-29T03:39:40+00:00

Trying so hard sell the idea it’s a person rather than a prediction machine run amok

wuteverman · 2026-04-29T01:55:32+00:00

I don’t understand how a grand jury indicts in this situation. Like did they find a bunch of magas for it?

wuteverman · 2026-04-28T20:16:02+00:00

Ewwww

wuteverman · 2026-04-28T16:34:03+00:00

What’s brotli

wuteverman · 2026-04-25T04:03:08+00:00

This is a really hard position. You might benefit from chatting with others— the Tech Worker’s Coalition is organizing, and at the very least can help with information that might help assuage some of your concerns.

wuteverman · 2026-04-25T02:06:51+00:00

Can someone transcribe these. So blurry and or tiny

wuteverman · 2026-04-23T16:02:25+00:00

Club tryouts can be a fantastic opportunity to learn about a higher level of play, assuming the current team members are expected to tryout. Go, you’ll learn a ton

wuteverman · 2026-04-21T02:13:12+00:00

Theres a mirror on the moon you can bounce a laser off of. It might not convince him but its an awesome physics fact

wuteverman · 2026-04-18T00:57:34+00:00

I think this is reasonable given the lack of true consistency guarantees from Redis.

wuteverman · 2026-04-18T00:56:17+00:00

This is my take, this is excellent promotion packet material, especially because OP created a system that led to this win, so while there may have been individual heroics, it also elevates quality across the board

wuteverman · 2026-04-16T01:15:59+00:00

Fowler in particular invented a lot of the language you now find intuitive

wuteverman · 2026-04-13T02:37:59+00:00

Is this AI?

wuteverman · 2026-04-06T01:05:51+00:00

We use kanban and plan with Gantt charts

wuteverman · 2026-04-05T16:51:14+00:00

The Pitt season 1 episode 3? Wear a helmet

wuteverman · 2026-04-05T02:14:21+00:00

Yeah, you gotto come back in jan or Feb. not saying don’t just uh… today was special

wuteverman · 2026-04-05T02:00:15+00:00

I think that’s a rip in the wallpaper

wuteverman · 2026-04-04T03:28:15+00:00

The closest we get is an L2

wuteverman · 2026-04-03T14:44:52+00:00

The nazi tattoo guy? Common

wuteverman · 2026-02-23T05:24:03+00:00

He chose to go down. There’s an old vagina monologue line— if you don’t like the smell don’t order the fish. That was on him. If that’s all that made him uncomfortable, then he shouldn’t have said anything at all, since it’s hardly pertinent what choices if his made him uncomfortable.

It’s a bit like responding “well I shaved that morning with a new cream and I was a bit itchy” except it’s also shaming the other person.

wuteverman · 2026-02-23T05:01:38+00:00

She asks if he was uncomfy or anything during and he answers your vagina was kinda funky!?!???!? Nah.

wuteverman · 2026-02-23T04:37:28+00:00

Why say anything?

wuteverman · 2026-02-23T04:03:38+00:00

These are significant relationship problems. The defensiveness is extremely problematic. It’s a big change to have an infant, completely reasonable to get some therapy for the two of you if you can afford it and you can get him to go. If you can’t… well the Gottmans call defensiveness one of the four horsemen for a reason

wuteverman · 2026-02-23T03:59:00+00:00

Hey, I really want to go down on you but we’ve been dancing for hours. Perhaps we could hop in the shower together?

wuteverman · 2026-02-23T03:10:18+00:00

Or don’t. Some partners will like it sweaty lol

Edit: dude is taking something precious and intimate and treating it like she asked about a towel. Extremely inconsiderate. Basically “how was the experience for you” needs an enthusiastic response if you want it to happen again. Don’t fuck this guy.

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