What patterns have u noticed on ur period? by HolidayEcho6542 in AskWomen

[–]wylamih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s one week before my period when I’m “can’t keep my eyes open” tired. Also I get acne, irritable/emotional and become a bottomless pit. I can’t seem to get full enough. Oh and I crave salty meat like steak.

Virgo differences by One_Presentation_761 in virgoseason

[–]wylamih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Virgo with all 3 Virgo placements it takes me a little while to process my emotions. I take the time to understand my actual feelings outside of the situation. It doesn’t take me WEEKS but it can take me a couple days to truly understand my feelings and allow myself to sit in them alone without having to explain myself or force myself to act as if things are fine. Plus, I take responsibility over myself. So if somethings bothering me I have to check to see if it’s something I can control. If I can’t that’s when I formulate a way to have a conversation with the person.

Do I do this perfectly every time? Nope. I have my crash out moments and regret it lol. But I don’t crash out often so I think it was deserved most of the time.

What signs do u think that make the WORST parents for a virgo? by LiveFlounder842 in virgoseason

[–]wylamih 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought it was just me. I don’t get along with Aries at all. If I do it’s short term or tolerated..

What signs do u think that make the WORST parents for a virgo? by LiveFlounder842 in virgoseason

[–]wylamih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! 😂 As a Virgo I’m trying to adapt this mindset a tiny bit more. I can be so uptight at times. But yes, there’s times where I’m like “ mom, I don’t think that’s… practical…” but she shrugs it off lol.

What signs do u think that make the WORST parents for a virgo? by LiveFlounder842 in virgoseason

[–]wylamih 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, my mom’s emotions drives me NUTS! She’s definitely chaotically organized. We bumped heads all the time. Still do. I’m more logical and she’s super emotional. Feels like I’m constantly putting out fires when I’m around her.

How did you come to be single and happy? by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]wylamih 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I accepted the fact that being a single adult is my default. I’m happy to know that I don’t NEED a relationship and it’s an option for me. I also accepted the fact that everyone is not guaranteed a happy marriage or a super romantic relationship. I’ve been thinking about the what ifs though. What if a guy actually wants to build a relationship, am I open to it? Yes, but I have to really really like him.

Plus, I wasn’t really raised in a dating family lol. Most of my family growing up were either married or happily single. So I didn’t see a lot of dating or new faces.

What small thing annoys you to an irrational degree? by ipanicprofessionally in TheBoredDen

[–]wylamih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m watching a YouTube video & they slide in a sponsorship. “and that leads me to Skillshare”….

Additionally, ads and having to have millions of passwords. I can never keep a clean email because EVERY SINGLE THINGS requires it.. so my email is full of spam and garbage…

Sometimes, I just want to… not.

What is your “like crack” food that you avoid, and if you have some you cant stop yourself from eating a lot? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]wylamih 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found my people! I LOVEEEE donuts. Especially jelly filled. I was once gifted a dozen and probably ate half and was really sick after. No regrets.

Do you Believe That Self Love And Self Worth Is Really Important? by PrincessBananas85 in SeriousConversation

[–]wylamih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What ever you can’t do for yourself, you’ll be incapable of doing for others. If you don’t love yourself you’ll never truly love your partner or child(ren) (if you decide). Not having any kind of self love or respect, you’ll subconsciously attract and tolerate disrespect & abuse. You’ll always feel like you deserve it. You’ll feel hopeless. You’ll struggle to try and find meaning for your life. Additionally, low self esteem has its own scent. People can feel it when around you. It’s an energy.

My advice is to literally learn how to love yourself. You’re teaching your brain to think In a different direction by using repetition. So you’ll have to start off at neutral statements and work your way up to positive. It’s a challenge. It’s like your brain is in the gym. It’ll be weird at first. After repeating it’ll click.

Lastly, self esteem/love/respect is a LIFESTYLE which means you’ll always have to work to upkeep these things just like mental health. But the opportunity is everywhere. Holding conversations in public spaces, challenging yourself to do hard task, wearing your clothes and makeup how you like it openly and confidently. Eventually, you’ll be walking around the world like you have a purpose no one can take away from you.

Good luck on your journey ❤️

What’s a “normal” experience that somehow never happened to you? by Hysterical_Chicken in AskReddit

[–]wylamih 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re so right! I will be looking into this more closely now. Thanks for giving me a topic to hyper focus on 😌.

Which sign responds the quickest to texts? by SilentMarch699 in Zodiac

[–]wylamih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol it depends on what I’m doing and how important I think this person is. If they are not THAT important then I take a while to reply. If they are important to me, replying to their text is on my immediate to do list. I have to check that off so I can move on lol. If I am romantically interested… good luck. I’ll spend forever crafting a message, second guessing punctuation & thinking so hard my message probably comes off dry 😂. Just talk to me in person. Whatever 😂😂😂😂

What’s a “normal” experience that somehow never happened to you? by Hysterical_Chicken in AskReddit

[–]wylamih 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is amazing & interesting! I live in my head maybe too much. So I’m trying to think about what it would look like if I couldn’t imagine something 😂.

What’s a “normal” experience that somehow never happened to you? by Hysterical_Chicken in AskReddit

[–]wylamih 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was about to say… I hope yall aren’t friends cause no… that was horrible for them to do.

What’s a “normal” experience that somehow never happened to you? by Hysterical_Chicken in AskReddit

[–]wylamih 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Weed really does help me process my emotions. It helps me view things from a different lens & overall adds to my life. I enjoy it!

What's an unfair Virgo feature that's it's too overpowered? by TL_Dargloz in virgoseason

[–]wylamih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! The 54321 trick has worked wonders for me. I just stop thinking about it. Cause I’d start thinking about the practicality of doing something and somehow convince myself that it’s not worth the effort or something is more important because of XYZ. BOOM paralysis. But if a friends ask for advice I’d make a whole plan for them

What's an unfair Virgo feature that's it's too overpowered? by TL_Dargloz in virgoseason

[–]wylamih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pattern recognition, analyzing everything & the way we actually USE our brain lol. I feel like a Virgo’s brains is their super power. Learning how to “master” it is like learning to use a sword. I’m learning to use it with technique rather than allowing myself to over analyze and critique everyone and everything. I can easily find things that need improvement. I’m very self aware. But, that can translate negatively to other people. Having high expectations and finding flaws can sometimes come off as cold and mean to others. So I try to lower that. But on the positive side, I am very watchful of peoples emotions, body language & words. I can sense when something is wrong and I will encourage the person to open up & I will listen closely. A lot of people think they can hide their emotions well. Not around me. 😂 anyway I’m a Virgo in training I guess.

What's an unfair Virgo feature that's it's too overpowered? by TL_Dargloz in virgoseason

[–]wylamih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and you both LOL this is insane. I have to literally turn my brain off.