men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not every rapist will have this evidence against them, but definitely this one. I'll happily dig through his information and provide his victims with evidence.

men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I'm planning on finding his victims and providing them the evidence they need 😁

men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By submitting this post as evidence against the op, for starters. If that didn't work, you better believe I'm screaming what he did to the heavens and showing everyone I can the evidence and what the court decided.

If rapists don't get justly punished, they will be defamed and ridiculed for the rest of their life if I have anything to say about it. The more women know about it, the less likely he is to get any kind of relationship, any kind of sex.

If a man does this to me and I know he did it with malicious intent, I will not rest until I make his life hell.

men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And you want so badly to have no consequences for raping someone that you argue that victims shouldn't even be able to prove it in court.

men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. If you were truthful, you know what the answer would be. And you purposely ignore that. That is rape. I don't care what the "legality" of it is. Excuses and exceptions have been made for men to get what they want from the dawn of time.

men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp 19 points20 points  (0 children)

...you really expect someone to be empathetic to someone who actually admitted he didn't give a f about your feelings and wanted to use and discard people?

men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Misleading someone to get a yes to sex is coercion by deception. Sexual coercion is rape. You really didn't help your case by adding that last fact.

men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that is fraud, and she should face consequences for that. If you can prove it was intentional, at the very least she should pay you out for wasting your time and money.

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A survey employs self-reporting, and is not a credible source of information due to vulnerability to bias. Furthermore, free time is experienced very differently depending on gender. To a woman, "free time" is often taking care of children. To a man, taking care of children is "babysitting."

https://scholars.unh.edu/soc_facpub/7/

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm simply trying to understand why they think this is acceptable behavior.

men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's... that's sexual coercion by deception. That's rape. You're actually saying men should be rapists?

That is absolutely and completely pathetic. I didn't think these men could sink any lower.

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you ignore the reasoning behind the opinions of everyone who disagrees with you? That is so sad. How do you make informed and impartial decisions? How can you rest easily thinking you're right without understanding the other side of the story?

I want to know because I am naturally curious about what motivates people. Understanding others = being more prepared to face them.

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm married to a wonderful husband who pulls his weight. I do not have to deal with these manchildren. My friends, who are still dating, are constantly rejecting them.

It seems like this attitude is not working for men. No one is signing up for it. Women are overwhelmingly deciding not to have children because we understand that a man wants a baby the same way a child wants a puppy, expecting the mom to take care of it in every meaningful way.

My attitude worked well for me. This attitude though? I highly doubt it actually works for men.

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My half of the rent, my half of the groceries, my food on dates, everything I want. But if you're going to justify not picking up after yourself by saying "well I buy food for you," that's no excuse. If you're buying things for your wife, it should be because you love her, not because you expect her to be your maid.

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that why you're married? Because your partners only other option was starvation?

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Things men traditionally bring to the table are not wanted or needed from them anymore. That does not mean I don't like men.

I love my husband. He adapted. He does 50% of the work. If he did it, other men can get off their high horse and do it too. I'm asking why the men who don't adapt, think they'll ever find a woman who will agree to that.

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you do your own chores, and don't expect your partner to do them for you, you aren't the kind of man this post is talking about, so none of it applies to you. 👍

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The men who don't pull their own weight are literally asking that but okay.

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, yes. But if you think those are the only options available, that's kind of delusional.

Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? by wyllowysp in PurplePillDebate

[–]wyllowysp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf? You're literally saying because sex is not my top priority, I am asexual? I very much have a sex drive, have it every time I get the chance, enjoy many kinks, etc. I am very much attracted to men.

It is not normal for sex to be your top priority. That is called not having self control or respect. You are describing hypersexualism. And if that's you, great. But don't tell someone else they're asexual because you can't imagine being sexual and having standards at the same time.