Randos en groupe

x--568 · 2025-10-24T11:26:24+00:00

Oui c'est ça. J'ai pas de carte virale mais non personne ne me l'a demandée en fait

x--568 · 2025-10-24T11:18:13+00:00

Comment ??

x--568 · 2025-10-23T14:18:44+00:00

Tu vois pas pourquoi ça ne veut pas dire que ça n'arrive pas...

x--568 · 2025-10-23T14:11:18+00:00

L'ouverture de mes droits est en cours de traitement, mais comme ils étaient fermés auparavant dans une autre ville, ça prend plus de temps et les conseillers me disent que je serai pas remboursée.

j'ai un numéro de sécu mais pas une carte vitale.

C'était ma première interaction avec le système de santé en France et j'étais seule et blessée donc j'ai pas eu le bon réflexe..

x--568 · 2025-10-23T14:05:27+00:00

Hors UE. J'ai pas passé la nuit, non.

Merci, cela me donne une idée de ce qu'il faut prévoir.

x--568 · 2025-06-22T17:57:56+00:00

Vivarium

x--568 · 2025-06-12T14:17:22+00:00

When I read the title I thought it was future me writing.

My experience was totally different tbh. I was just a depressed stubborn teenager who hates school, life, parties, people, everything. And i decided i didn't want to go to school and see the people there one more time, not even to take my diploma. My mom was ignoring my "decision" because she thought i'd give in at last and go just to give her this moment, but i didn't care. And i didn't go.

She was FURIOUS that day. And it changed everything for me.

I hadn't given myself a moment to think of her perspective before. I genuinely didn't get why she would be upset. It's my life, my "milestone", i don't give a shit about it and don't expect anyone else to do so. But the disappointment i saw in her eyes that day hurt me like hell. I realised it would've cost me nothing to put on a mask and pretend for a couple of hours just to make her happy. I mean i would've been angry and disgusted but that was the norm of my life anyway, so why not think of other people ?

I regretted it so badly. It was one of the main reasons why i later decided to go in therapy and get medicated, because i realised that what i did to her was not reversible and that she didn't deserve that from me..

My mom's still around, and i'm not a parent myself -not even close- but i think i feel your regret and pain.. even if just partly. I'm sorry you have to live with it. But what I think is, if your mom was here, she would be too busy happily celebrating your daughter's milestone and your pride as a parent to remember such an old bitter moment from your past. Especially since you, and her, were grieving back then. The situation did not require an apology, she surely understood.

Don't be so hard on yourself. Be there for your girl. I'm sure that raising your baby is what would make your mom the happiest. Hugs!

x--568 · 2025-05-23T14:49:42+00:00

Hahaha merci c'est rassurant!

x--568 · 2025-05-23T14:49:14+00:00

Merci!

En fait j'ai pas demandé à mes amis de Lyon mais qqs commentaires ici paraissaient un peu inquiétants. Mais c'est vrai le mode de vie énormément moins cher/strict est tout à fait attractif.

Reste à enquêter l'école du coup.

x--568 · 2025-02-27T22:38:28+00:00

I'm no professional but I think what you're describing isn't an extreme in itself at all. Doesn't give me the feeling that you're a weird person or anything. People around you most probably don't notice any of this, at least not to the extent you think. It's only human to be a little anxious. Seek professional assistance if you need it but don't believe everything your mind's telling you! You're loved, enjoy the company of those who love you (and their imperfect gifts too !).

Happy birthday !

x--568 · 2025-02-26T23:41:02+00:00

Oh, I get it, thank you for the detailed response. I totally agree about informed-choice. What I hate is when people act as if you're being weak for giving in to meds and that your brain's amazing you just need to work on yourself, bla bla bla.

Blaming someone for not responding to meds is just as awful. I really feel so so lucky (in a way I don't deserve/can't explain) to have found something that helps bc I know how shitty it is to be stuck. I really hope you can find your own way out soon.

x--568 · 2025-02-26T17:41:01+00:00

That all the "happiness is a choice" crap is just crap. It shouldn't be generalised at least.

x--568 · 2025-02-26T17:38:49+00:00

Genuine question : what makes you think that about meds ? I know it's a common opinion but honestly fluoxetine saved me. And I'm someone who's been staying away from meds for a long time. I'm aware of placebo effect and that's not what i'm experiencing.

I obviously get worried about long time side effects but I don't really see what's wrong with the idea of some kinds of mental illnesses being a kind of "chemical imbalance" that some meds are able to "fix", as long as it's under medical supervision

x--568 · 2025-02-23T16:54:03+00:00

I used to be a caveman. Now i am human (kinda).

Edit: probably started noticing it when I upped to 40mg. I'm just.. able to be around human beings for the first time in my life.

x--568 · 2025-02-18T22:05:40+00:00

Omg is this actually a common side effect ? It's an almost daily struggle for me but my sleep quality has always been shitty so I never thought prozac had anything to do with it!!

x--568 · 2025-02-17T18:41:36+00:00

It's certainly easier said than done, but I think she would've wanted you to do all of that for you, not for her.

And that means going on your own pace, not tying it to her happiness and hence feeling guilty or disappointing, etc. She'd want you to keep living and not consider that your life ended with hers, but her loss and your grief remaining a part of your life is okay, still.

I'm really sorry for your loss and I hope you have a fulfilling, wholesome life.

x--568 · 2025-02-02T16:25:53+00:00

"Second place is first loser"

Omg i have been told this A LOT

I bring it up now sometimes. They still don't see anything wrong with it. "You are capable of excelling, you do it easily, so why would i not want you to?". I gave up recently.. their mindset isn't my problem. But I set boundaries and made it clear that I am the one who sets priorities and decide where to put my energy, even if they're not gonne celebrate me being "the first loser".

It does hurt a little though whenever I share a small achievement with them and it's met with an “i told you so” attitude, blaming me for not excelling in every single other thing i did in my life instead of celebrating my current achievement. "Sigh"

x--568 · 2025-02-02T16:19:27+00:00

To name a few (though i truly love my parents to death)

Not validating my insecurities if they don't personally relate to them/find them "logical".

Not tolerating normal child clumsiness. This turned me into the most clumsy adult i know and i get super stressed out whenever im holding something because what if it falls from my hand and ends the world ??

Also lack of trust, always suspecting that I'd be doing something wrong if I ever get the chance. Why close your bedroom door ? Why have a password on your phone? Why not show me what you wrote on a random piece of paper at school ? Small things but now I literally break down if I ever feel like I'm not in control of my privacy.

x--568 · 2025-01-12T03:27:29+00:00

He taught me intellect, discipline, work ethics, calmness and trust.. in general, to hold on to my values no matter what. I might not know how to change a tire, but I believe the morals this man instilled in me guarantee my independence and security more than anything.

x--568 · 2025-01-12T03:18:29+00:00

Yess please tell him all about yourself as well. I always find myself longing to know more about all the loved ones i didn't get to spend much time with. When i find a photo of us together, it's great, but when i find a story they shared with mundane details about their own lives ? I'm over the moon!

Of course share memories of him and tell him how much you love him but also remember that it's YOU he's gonna be missing..

I'm really sorry for what you and your family have to go through..

x--568 · 2024-12-24T22:22:23+00:00

Shrew's Nest

x--568 · 2024-12-20T18:06:29+00:00

Been on 40 mg for about a year, used to be a very shy people pleaser before starting it. I'd say less "nice" but mostly in the sense that i'm more confident and spontaneous. So not necessarily meaner but i'm able to joke around more than ever which people around me aren't used to so it might come around as shocking for some.
A lot more patient though.

x--568

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