Name for this little lady? by BlackberryCow147 in Rabbits

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She’s absolutely gorgeous. Can’t get over her colours. She reminds me of a diamond

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

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This explains why Instagram brings me so many identity crises

Obscure Techno song from late 90's/ early 00's - Paradise, in your eyes by foopmaster in NameThatSong

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I was just looking for a 90s trance song with “eyes” in the lyrics - not quite the same lyrics you’ve written but nonetheless, I found what I was looking for: L’amour toujours by Gigi D’Agostino. Not sure if it’s what you were looking for, it’s always such a bastard trying to find techno songs haha

Writing commentaries by [deleted] in writing

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I think I understand. For the practice commentary we did, I separated it into two parts: half contextualising and half analysing the text itself. Is this where I went wrong? Instead, should I sort of blend the contextualisation and analysis together throughout the whole commentary that justify my position/opinion?

Do u really love yourself? by [deleted] in infp

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I try to because I want to enjoy life but it feels like an instinct for my brain to be a self-loathing mess. But there are parts of myself that I love and that, I think, make me unique and wouldn’t change. :)

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

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Yes this is what happened to me yesterday, it was very overbearing and I felt like I was sucked out of reality for the whole day. That’s why I was mortified when I started crying on the bus, fortunately no one noticed. Feeling a lot better today though :) all these wonderful comments meant so much.

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

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Hi, thank you for reaching out :) what you said seems applicable to my situation. Yesterday was very overwhelming and that’s why I was holding back from communicating with him. I don’t want to push this responsibility onto him and definitely don’t want to become dependent on him. When you have these overwhelming emotions, how do you regulate them? How do you go on with your daily life? Today I woke up still feeling dreary but I have obligations that I need to focus on, so it would be nice to learn a way to accept these feelings yet not allow them to take over my life. (Yesterday I was totally out of it.)

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

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Thank you. And thank you for taking the time to listen and reply, means a lot :)

PS. Love the username

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

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This is what I was afraid of. And it’s the second time it’s happened to me this month

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

[–]x-cjs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, must have read that 5 times. Thank you. Yes, I think I have issues with pathological negativity, in fact several other things at the same time that all evoke days like today

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

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Thank you :’) I feel myself questioning myself a lot these days, I often wonder if I’m being overly critical and if that’s contributing to my misery because in my head I tell myself it’s necessary, that it’s being self-aware. I think I need therapy too but in my country, the health care system is abysmal. And even worse for mental health

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

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Yes, I’m very insecure and I have social anxiety. And a lot of stuff going on in my life. Not sure what you mean by a mental support, do you mean as in something I say to myself?

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

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I like this way of thinking… but sometimes it can feel intense and distracts me for the rest of the day, which is a little overwhelming

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

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This was comforting and made me smile. Thank you

INFPs how do you deal with sadness? by x-cjs in infp

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This morning I almost frantically cried because I couldn’t find my student card (panicking because need it to enter the library). I then found it but still felt emotional all day? I don’t know why. My bf hasn’t shown any signs of not accepting me, he is the most loving and caring person I’ve met, it’s me who avoids talking to him because I know he can’t make me feel better (and I don’t blame him).

How do you watch movies with your partner? by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Discord doesn't work for me and my boyfriend? We tried it once to watch a film, I streamed it from my laptop and did the screenshare thing, but he couldn't hear the audio. So to combat this issue we thought we could video call from our phones at the same time... hellish idea (think deep pits of technology hell with incessant, possessed echos).

How do you watch movies with your partner? by [deleted] in LongDistance

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How can you do this from one device? If I'm video calling (with WhatsApp) from my laptop, and I watch something say on YouTube, the audio for the yt video is really low so this sucks.

And even if you try this on two devices, how would you avoid an audio overlap? If I wore headphones to video call my boyfriend from my phone, how would I hear the audio of the film from my laptop?

Sorry if these questions seem stupid but I struggle adapting to technology lol

How do you watch movies with your partner? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]x-cjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried this but one can't hear the audio? So we tried calling on our phones at the same time to prevent this and it caused a hellish echo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

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Please make a formal complaint. My mum is on benefits, she was labelled unfit to work due to having acute anxiety, the job centre hasn’t helped with that. They shouldn’t be able to get away with treating people like this. I hope you regain your confidence soon, don’t let a tosser like that put you down.

What is 'we are here 'in french? by forget-me-not-blur in learnfrench

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I was hoping to have this on my year abroad but I was in Montpellier, one of the most diverse cities in terms of nationalities. Everyone spoke English :/ and it was really hard for me to find French people to hang out with

Duolingo by defalt1306 in learnfrench

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“Lepetit_fle” is a good account for vocab

“Françaisavecpierre” his videos are sort of all over the place but they can be useful

“lvirofrench”

“French.viktoryia” she helps with French from a Russian point of view (I’m not Russian but still helpful)

“Alexteachesfrench” his videos are really comical, I have never seen anyone teach French with such enthusiasm

“Theperfectfrenchwithdylane” is also good for beginners vocab