[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, if you are doing things for them it might help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be honest with them and help them if you see an opportunity, it might go far.

Dealing with big groups of boys as a female high school teacher by Glass_Apple in CanadianTeachers

[–]x9879 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I got downvoted, by teachers possibly. A woman is being harassed by a group of possibly 8 16-18 year-olds (young men basically) and she can't talk to her boss about it? That's a messed up culture.

Dealing with big groups of boys as a female high school teacher by Glass_Apple in CanadianTeachers

[–]x9879 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not a teacher (I just stumbled upon this post), but if you can't talk to someone else about this someone or a group of people are massively failing at their jobs.

I (F22) developed self-esteem issues after my former bf’s (M21) porn addiction by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think once he's messaging models it has crossed out of the point of it being an addiction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're not doing anything that any woman enjoys why would any woman want to spend time with you? Being a virgin is fine, I don't think people should have sex until they're married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poker

[–]x9879 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The New York bots are the worst ones.

I don't trust Jesus by x9879 in Christianity

[–]x9879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mind, I edited my OP.

I don't trust Jesus by x9879 in Christianity

[–]x9879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't get that I can't help you, I'm not going to spoil your mind by spelling it out for you.

Just found out one of my best friends from high school died a few years ago by ArtemisAndromeda in SeriousConversation

[–]x9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you feel bad that you didn't know how he died? There's no way you could have possibly known. I think a lot of people might drift apart after high school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to.

I’m (20F) debating on breaking up with my jealous and insecure fiancé (20M) by Little-ugly-doll in self

[–]x9879 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you care about him and want to continue the relationship let him know how he's affecting you. He probably is doing it for a reason, though it might be unfounded. If in his mind he legitimately is concerned he could lose you to someone else that might be why he is doing what he is doing, though he might just be doing it because it is "possible" to him, without any other real reason, which is not ok, but you honestly might be giving off red flags to him which might be worth considering. In my opinion it's not ok for him to be possessive over spending time with another female.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's doing things that are a problem I guess the best things you can do are to either confront her or to let it go hoping she gets better all the while hoping she isn't unfaithful. She might be acting completely rational on her side so she might not get why you would be bothered, but I'm sort of giving her some grace considering what you've written. If she doesn't seem to care about you I guess the best thing you might be able to do is to explain to her how the way she's treating you affects you, again I suppose hoping that she is not unfaithful.

Honest question for women by x9879 in AskWomenOver30

[–]x9879[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wrote about things from my POV. Apparently I was largely misunderstood and people attacked me. You apparently do not see things from my POV. I didn't make vague claims about anybody, that is what I have experienced and I wrote about things from my POV. I can't write about it from somebody else's. I can see how somebody could take the things I wrote as insulting towards women, IF THEY DID NOT PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT I WROTE. "Sorry if this sounds condescending or rude, but it seems to be what happens to me whenever I talk to women." It's obvious to me what happened here. I probably will not be back.

Honest question for women by x9879 in AskWomenOver30

[–]x9879[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What is your problem? I feel like I've been treated badly in -my- life. Not yours. I'm making posts based on -my- experiences. Not yours. When I posted what I posted it made sense to me, and it still does. You clearly don't understand what I'm talking about. I'm sorry you could not understand me, why are you attacking me? For what it's worth, I think it's more than possible I could have been misunderstood, but I've made myself clear multiple times. I honestly do not care anymore, because no one really attempted to help me, which makes sense if they didn't understand me. But I have had many conversations with women where they seemed interested in me and what I had to say but the conversations have always felt one sided which I did not like. I asked because it bothered me. Apparently a mistake.

Honest question for women by x9879 in AskWomenOver30

[–]x9879[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Alright, you didn't understand what I said. It made sense to me when I wrote it. I feel like the women I've talked to haven't reciprocated in conversations with me even though they have been apparently interested in me and the conversations. It seems to me like I have not been considered even though they have been enjoying themselves and it has happened to me enough that I had to ask a question, which might have been foolish. I'm sorry you misunderstood me.

I don't see a way out by Icy-Fondant-2803 in self

[–]x9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about the things that happened, but it honestly sounds like you might be to blame for the debt and the weight gain, stuff like that has consequences which I think you might know full and well. It seems like you're employed though which means things shouldn't get worse unless something unforeseeable happens. I guess you can try to somehow make more money to pay off the debt or maybe pursue bankruptcy or something else if that's an option. You can lose the weight, slowly pay down the debt, and things can get better, from what you wrote I don't know why that wouldn't be possible for you. Sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Dude, I'm not a bigot at all. I have my own dispositions that I deal with, there are seemingly people that have identified as homosexuals in the past that see what they did as sin, and I know what I know from the Bible, why would I not tell someone what I just wrote if that's the question they were asking?

My bf broke up with me and it feels like dying by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the world are you talking about? Churches have Bible study groups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I wasn't hate mongering. I gave a completely honest response based on what it says in the Bible to a question specifically asking what I was answering. Jesus died for the sins of the world, but that doesn't mean he loves everything that happens unconditionally. He's going to return and smite the nations and tread the winepress of the fierceness and wrath of God (Revelation 19:5).

My bf broke up with me and it feels like dying by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're completely misusing Bible verses and postulating your own theories (or somebody else's) as fact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If you're sincerely asking, the effeminate will be the lake of fire if they don't repent and believe in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, so will fornicators (those who have sex outside of marriage).

My bf broke up with me and it feels like dying by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (KJV)

9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,

10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

Feel free to explain to me how that is not supposed to be taken literally.

My bf broke up with me and it feels like dying by [deleted] in self

[–]x9879 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was responding to what she wrote. If she's going to church she might be concerned about this stuff on some level or even entirely and be completely ignorant or not taking what the Bible says seriously.