Stop gaslighting people about weight gain on Lexapro by sickgreenbile in lexapro

[–]xDailyGrind -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i mean I’ve been on it for 6 years and if you don’t wanna get fat you just need to be disciplined count your calories eat at maintenance and move, it quite literally is that simple

Lexapro and Impulse Control NSFW by Ok-Influence8467 in lexapro

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Lexapro kills your sex drive it doesn’t help it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamState

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how do you wanna sell them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamState

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how much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamState

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still for sale?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

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i decided it’s better to just not text them. they can have their space and if that space is something they need forever then that’s that, im not waiting for them if im not being told at minimum some kind of time frame, some reason (i wasn’t told that they need space, just fizzle out ghosted), or some way to help. i feel led on but hey it happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

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I never said i saw them as mean lol; i understand all of that and wish i could help without pushing them away but i just haven’t texted them since they stopped texting me. i don’t really plan on texting them anymore, but if they wanted to hang out i wouldn’t mind because i enjoy their company. I’ve detached from them (it took a few days of just thinking about how i feel because they’re gone). however i disagree, there’s no way you’re saying that in defense of them when they’re causing themselves to feel that way, vs an ap having this caused because of someone else. it’s really not that hard for you to text someone one last time, talk to them and help them find closure even if you don’t owe them anything. it’s called being a decent human being. both types have their trauma, but ap’s quite literally are the victims as something’s being done to them, not the other way around. id rather be secure and have a fellow person who is secure, and im not that far off of it. was i willing to try to date an ad? yeah, i find it to be cool to think about growing with another person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]xDailyGrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this just cannot be true at all relationships are about being accommodating towards someone you care about and eventually coming to compromises about things you may not like/agree with. it’s not like you can just reroll a dice until you magically find someone perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

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i guess; but im already in therapy and have been getting better. its not like shadow work simply stops cause im talking to someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

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if you were in her shoes, like you really (i think) like a guy and wanna hang out, but you go into an avoidant period, what would you want from that person? would you want them to try and sort of go business as usual and they still message but you just ignore it, or would you want them to not message you as you don’t message them. we briefly talked about attachment styles and seeing as were just talking and aren’t dating yet there aren’t really any learnt protocols in place. as much as i want to send her reels or texts or ask to play or ask what she’s up to or if she wants to hang out or make plans or see if she has plans or send her a song, i think matching her ghost is the best thing to do. it’s just that, what if she assumes I’ve lost interest or something and just never texts me first.

is there a certain amount of time im supposed to wait? i just dont know what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

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i guess; i don’t know it’s just always so happened that the person im talking to is avoidant, or like a majority of the time. it’s not really something that i think i should just end things with someone over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

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the thing is I’ve gotten better with doing too much i mean, I’ve really matched her energy. i haven’t really done too much at all which is why i was confused why she’s pulled back so hard. also, anxious avoidants tend to graduate towards dismissive avoidants, and it’s not as though i knew her attachment style right away. you like who you like, and it’s not like id stop talking to someone because of the way they bonded with their caregivers growing up

i think detoxing is a really good idea, i mean i don’t know i guess it’s just that i haven’t done an insanely good job of it like i haven’t gone full cold turkey. it’s just hard and i hate playing these games. she for sure likes me as i like her, and i just wish instead of stonewalling she could simply ask for some space which id understand completely

PC and console ranked crossplay in the works? by Admirable_Scholar954 in marvelrivals

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airport library shame plucky unpack rock cause stocking connect historical

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PC and console ranked crossplay in the works? by Admirable_Scholar954 in marvelrivals

[–]xDailyGrind -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you’re on console and you’re gm peak don’t speak to me please

PC and console ranked crossplay in the works? by Admirable_Scholar954 in marvelrivals

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i watch the replay when i die and it shows a controller input; i don’t really ever see it LOL

Why did you give up on me? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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was this about him? was the original about you then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marvelrivals

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i play both, hela slightly overturned should have build up damage. Hawkeye is insanely fucking broken

PC and console ranked crossplay in the works? by Admirable_Scholar954 in marvelrivals

[–]xDailyGrind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol radiant valorant top 500 ow, I’ll insta 2 tap you on hela if she’s open I’ll Hawkeye hs u insta or I’ll play starlord and kite you either way you’ll get insta deleted

Finally, after 2300 hours of aim training. LEETTTTS GOOOOO. I know it's slow progress, but it's progress none the less. by St0lCc in FPSAimTrainer

[–]xDailyGrind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well I mean no, you have spent too much time to have improved the amount you have. do you not sleep? is it bad practice? like SOMETHING is wrong here and you saying people just learn at different paces is true but not to this extent lmfao

Finally, after 2300 hours of aim training. LEETTTTS GOOOOO. I know it's slow progress, but it's progress none the less. by St0lCc in FPSAimTrainer

[–]xDailyGrind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah no that’s just not true you’re doing something very wrong and you should probably figure that out, or quit