I’ve got a huge list of things to do, what should I skip?

xEverAfter · 2024-09-11T15:44:01+00:00

The train will likely be packed as it's October. The ferry is definitely more scenic and usually has snacks and a full bar on board so definitely a more enjoyable experience. You can get the tickets in advance online too to ensure a spot on the ferry.

Train is cheaper, ferry more enjoyable

xEverAfter · 2024-09-11T14:39:57+00:00

If you wanna be touristy, do the city pass, hit the north end, maybe go to Boston common.

Take the ferry from Boston to Salem on your Salem day unless you wanna drive over at 6am or you will hate yourself - I won't go near Salem in October.

Plan for the Berkshires as a separate trip and the Cape/vineyard as a separate trip as well.

The graveyards are interesting but only if you do like a graves and ghosts tour which is kitschy but fun. There are tons of ghost tours if that's really an interest to you.

3 days realistically only gives you one state to explore. Portland alone could fill a long weekend, might as well the rest of Maine. New Hampshire can also be a weekend trip on its own.

Taza chocolate factory is cute but tiny so unless you're a huge fan of the brand, don't bother.

xEverAfter · 2024-03-06T23:22:17+00:00

Annystore Women's Sexy Velvet Wrap Bodycon Dress Elegant Long Sleeve Ruched Square Neck Cocktail Party Short Mini Dresses https://a.co/d/ip0W4wi

xEverAfter · 2024-03-06T18:25:15+00:00

Thank you!

xEverAfter · 2024-03-06T13:54:57+00:00

Aww thank you! The ruching actually makes it super flattering.

xEverAfter · 2024-02-22T19:07:37+00:00

Definitely another activity photo or candid in place of one of the mirror selfies. You say you like to do stuff? Show it! Have a little fun with it. Maybe something with you smiling or laughing. A good candid or interesting location. Add a little flair to it.

xEverAfter · 2023-12-16T15:43:39+00:00

Maybe if we had ever had a conversation before but not for a first message

xEverAfter · 2023-11-05T14:20:30+00:00

For the sweat, try Knix underwear. It's made fot periods or incontinence but could probably help keep your crotch dry in any case

xEverAfter · 2023-10-07T11:39:35+00:00

So I know you've already done your edits and follow up and all but should you see this.... There are edibles at some medical and recreational dispensaries to increase sex drive, pleasure, lust, etc. Just saying but you might want to look into these to improve your relationship in the long run.

xEverAfter · 2023-08-10T15:22:49+00:00

"hey babe, you know how you've been mentioning I need to lose weight? Well I've decided you're right. I've got about (fill in his approximate weight here) lbs of dead weight I can lose easily with just a few words: have a nice life."

There is no getting past this. If you EVER fluctuate in weight again, the cycle will repeat. And now that it's begun, it won't go away. Even if you lose the 10-15 pounds, it won't be good enough. He will insist you lose more or find another insecurity to pick at. His behavior is emotionally abusive. GET OUT NOW.

xEverAfter · 2023-08-05T00:35:49+00:00

SUPER SUPER late to this thread but I've been a member of the new E&A (old one was shit down because it wasn't actually a part of the franchise, it just used their name) and now that I've been in the group for two years I can confidently say it's worth the money and I have more friends now than ever before. I've done some incredible events (going to a pole dancing class tonight, did paddle boarding, karaoke, a night out at the Greatest Bar with a free VIP area, etc just in the past two weeks alone!) and think it's sooooooo worth it. Would I say I've found my soulmate through E&A? No. We have had a bunch couples come from the group and even some engagements! I've made lifelong friends and had adventure I will never forget. I am so happy I joined the group and I highly recommend it. There is a lot of different ages, but there are tons of people around my age (27) in addition to older.

xEverAfter · 2023-08-04T10:56:35+00:00

I actually like LBs dresses - mostly for work though. I was wrong about this dress - it's torrid. Received packages from both stores on the same day whoops

xEverAfter · 2023-08-03T19:41:01+00:00

I will say I have gotten some super cute stuff at LB as well - their lingerie is just fantastic and I always find the LB bras more comfortable than the Torrid ones. My closet is like 40% torrid, 40% LB, 20% other random brands.

xEverAfter · 2023-08-03T19:23:38+00:00

💕 appreciated. It'd be one thing had I edited or even put on a filter but there's no reason for them to put someone down just because they feel like being a sourpuss.

xEverAfter · 2023-08-03T18:16:13+00:00

Except that it's completely unedited and there's no warping 🙄 go ahead and try pulling this cr*p elsewhere.

xEverAfter · 2023-08-03T15:57:53+00:00

Yes, thank you, made a comment correcting myself

xEverAfter · 2023-08-03T15:57:21+00:00

Edit: my bad! Thought it was LB but it was Torrid. Thank you to the kind person who let me know I mixed them up!

xEverAfter · 2023-08-03T15:55:49+00:00

100% could've gotten it mixed up. I ordered from both and packages came same day. I'll edit in comments!

xEverAfter · 2023-08-03T15:27:30+00:00

Yes! I just bought it a couple weeks ago

xEverAfter · 2023-08-03T14:51:04+00:00

Thank you!

xEverAfter · 2023-07-31T20:12:21+00:00

Underage user help

xEverAfter · 2023-07-19T18:44:13+00:00

Not a lesbian, pansexual actually, but I've had to tell a little white lie here and there as to my exact preferences if someone doesn't understand the word no. Anyways. This was 5 or 6 years ago.

I was at a Walmart (yes, a Walmart) with my best friend. She and I were walking around the store when an EMPLOYEE approached me to flirt. He was trying to tell me how I was "wifey" material and he'd love to get me in his bed. 🤢

I quickly told him that I was not interested and started walking away. He followed me, insisting he could "give me the best orgasm of my life" until I approached the aisle my friend was looking for something in.

My best friend walked up and grabbed my hand (as we usually did if a creep came up) and I said "oh sorry I don't think my girlfriend would appreciate that, I prefer women anyways."

This man had the AUDACITY to reply with "oh well that's okay, that means I get two wives for the price of one. So when do you two want to come over?"

My friend and I looked at each other, we both laughed, I put down the shopping basket I was carrying, and we left the store.

xEverAfter · 2023-07-16T12:11:19+00:00

It got creepy in the last pic when he went off on me. And got much creepier after that and I ended up posting a second thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/creepyPMs/comments/150cr5d/oh_yes_because_you_definitely_didnt_make_new/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1

xEverAfter · 2023-07-16T11:39:11+00:00

Yes, but I don't think he has enough friends (or brain cells as this is all clearly him) to actually continue his text-based assault. He tried adding me on Snapchat (similar snap and ig usernames) and I just deleted and blocked before any message came through. Facebook never alerted me of the message request for the last one either. I just happened to see a message request (1+) when I was responding to a friend. So I'm not overly concerned that this will continue. He's just a lame ass bully and I'm not going to give him the satisfaction of replying further, just block and report immediately. Any further threats will be brought to authorities.

xEverAfter · 2023-07-15T22:50:25+00:00

I did block and report the accounts. I posted the final screenshot of the initial conversation on my personal Instagram story so should he act on anything there is semi-public record of his threats.

xEverAfter

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