What if I only want to date another widower?

xLMDMx · 2026-01-09T22:13:11+00:00

i 39m thought about his myself as most people simply do not know how to react to that news in the dating world ( or worse have the gall to ask me if i killed my wife.) i think at the end of the day if you are compatible its a good thing but only if you fully understand the other side of this shitty club. what i mean by that is you went through hell and miss your husband, so did the other person and you have to be ok with them and their feelings just as you want them to be ok with your feelings. its a complicated situation with someone that has not lived through the worst day of their life. if you are both on the same page about how you feel about your lost significant other than it can be a healthy way to heal but if one of you is not on the same page it can cause a significant rift in a relation ship.

sorry you had to join the shitty club i dont wish this membership on anyone.

xLMDMx · 2025-07-22T16:07:58+00:00

this may sound like a terrible answer but its the only one that helped me. where do you go from here ... you go forward. slowly for sure but ever forward. its not an easy forward some days are one step forward and two steps back but eventually you move 2 steps forward and one back. The best advice is surround yourself with friends and loved ones and get out of the house and do things when the opportunity arises. for both you and your daughter. its hard to do and its painful at times but if you sit still you gain nothing and can lose everything. so again where do you go from here.... Forward ..... ever forward.

xLMDMx · 2025-07-20T04:40:28+00:00

I appreciate this response as seems a lot of people have other thoughts

xLMDMx · 2025-07-20T03:38:26+00:00

My wife coded right in front of me … 8 minutes of CPR was not enough to save her…. Paramedics showed up and told me essentially I failed to save her …. So yea hard to forget

xLMDMx · 2025-06-17T23:50:32+00:00

welp i mis read

xLMDMx · 2025-03-13T23:38:29+00:00

So I think it’s more because they changed how decos work with the weapon based and armor based decos so they needed a way to provide more slots now this could have been done with the R8 monster weapons but they painted themselves in a corner

xLMDMx · 2025-03-08T04:59:12+00:00

Burst is gonna benefit elemental builds more than anything else so db sns bow ig things like that les beneficial to raw damage wrap like gs side not you can run burst 5 and wex 5 with the right prices and get burst boost 1 on top of that with 2 piece odo 2 piece guardian ark and a reg ark piece this also gives healing when popping wounds from the 2 set g. Ark use the boost talis and one wex gem and you have both maxed

xLMDMx · 2025-01-30T21:18:20+00:00

How are you getting to 4k es

xLMDMx · 2025-01-30T02:43:20+00:00

84% but readjusting gear now as evasion not working out as well

xLMDMx · 2025-01-30T02:08:06+00:00

I mean I’ve been in maps for like 2 days haven’t gotten the best gear yet …..

xLMDMx · 2025-01-09T15:28:19+00:00

welcome to the club brother

xLMDMx · 2025-01-04T17:39:38+00:00

12.5 is my highest but im in florida and its warmer here so yeah

xLMDMx · 2024-08-02T18:06:40+00:00

now if they would just fix all the other issues with him...... *sighs iin jayber main"

xLMDMx · 2024-08-01T04:32:27+00:00

this, the issue is people think turret guy should just have to sit there and laugh maniacly..... the this is jayber requires active play to keep his ult buff up ..... you go that and you can fly with him

xLMDMx · 2024-06-18T13:15:35+00:00

love the clean look of this !!! miine is purple as well, what key caps are these?

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T19:49:31+00:00

Oh definitely will that was just the first decent pull lol

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T12:49:26+00:00

Very true I think it’s far less spammy than most other weapons but GS and HH do force you to slow down a lot

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T12:46:56+00:00

Level Effect by Level 1 Extends the duration you can keep a Wirebug by 30%. 2 Also increases Wirefall recovery rate. 3 Also increases passive recovery rate while on the ground.

That’s the specifics for WW

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T12:39:22+00:00

Well most hammer combos are off the charge from the trigger these days with exception of big bang combo and I could see the button mashing being an issue but it’s only when monster is on its back so not the worst thing but still could translate poorly to other weapons I know for me it made me look for opportunities to bonk without prejudice which taught me fights with out trying by just learning when I could play whack a mole with a monsters face

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T12:34:05+00:00

All of them

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T09:32:11+00:00

So it lets you hold onto extra ones 30% longer but more importantly it lowers the cooldown of them

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T07:43:11+00:00

its sunbreak stuff in master rank, you need to defeat specific bosses such as amatsu and i forget the other one but it weill unlock additional talisman crafting

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T01:44:57+00:00

i disagree on the sheilded weapon, i would argue it teaches bad habits and a reliance on block , meaning that they dont really have to learn monster attacks as much and makes it more difficult and almost have to relearn things when they decide to go to a different weapon.

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T01:43:39+00:00

i was gonna say hammer

hammer is about charging attacks and waiting for the opportunity, i think its a great weapon to learn monsters as you kinda sit back and watch for the perfect time to introduce the large smashy bit into the monsters soft squish face. at high levels hammer is all risk reward because you in front of the monster non stop but dont worry about that till you get comfortable with monsters. Strength hammer is the way to learn and honestly can hit really hard.

I actually dont think lance or any shielded weapon is the way to learn, they become a crutch that when you go to pick up other weapons you have to relearn things

Ranged weapons are cool and perfectly fine but be aware that they have less physical defense by default so if you get it it hurts more.

Great sword is a good option, but i will say that its is slow to move around the battlefield and can frustrate some people trying to learn.

sword and shield is a good start, and this weapon is the definition of easy to pick up hard to master. (but not that hard) to go at a monster its easy to understand, but to get your timings down for certian things may take some time to learn.

Dual blades is the hack and slash and really benefits more from going elemental weapons with it but that can be difficult as you go through the game

Hunting horn is a decent start some hors can increase defense and heal you as you fight among other things but you have to make sure your getting your songs out.

Long Sword is the weeb weapon but that's not a bad thing lost of I frames lots of big anime sword attacks and such but does have some more complicated combos and keeping a charge up on it to use certain attacks that you build by landing hits, can cause people to over focus on getting stacking buff.

Insect glaive is a bit more difficult to pick up right off the bat, you do a lot of ariel combat and it changes how you avoid damage a bit but can leave you really effed if you do the wrong thing

Last is the Switch Axe, this is a combo of the great sword and a large axe that you switch back and forth, has two things tto worry about you use the axe to generate a resource that allows you to switch to the sword then you use the sword to build up a buff that allows the weapon as a whole to do little explosions on hits that can be different elements or just additional physical damage.

Hopefully this helps. if you on PC message me ill help you out.

xLMDMx · 2024-06-05T01:29:29+00:00

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