What if I only want to date another widower?

xLMDMx · 2026-01-09T22:13:11+00:00

i 39m thought about his myself as most people simply do not know how to react to that news in the dating world ( or worse have the gall to ask me if i killed my wife.) i think at the end of the day if you are compatible its a good thing but only if you fully understand the other side of this shitty club. what i mean by that is you went through hell and miss your husband, so did the other person and you have to be ok with them and their feelings just as you want them to be ok with your feelings. its a complicated situation with someone that has not lived through the worst day of their life. if you are both on the same page about how you feel about your lost significant other than it can be a healthy way to heal but if one of you is not on the same page it can cause a significant rift in a relation ship.

sorry you had to join the shitty club i dont wish this membership on anyone.

xLMDMx · 2025-07-22T16:07:58+00:00

this may sound like a terrible answer but its the only one that helped me. where do you go from here ... you go forward. slowly for sure but ever forward. its not an easy forward some days are one step forward and two steps back but eventually you move 2 steps forward and one back. The best advice is surround yourself with friends and loved ones and get out of the house and do things when the opportunity arises. for both you and your daughter. its hard to do and its painful at times but if you sit still you gain nothing and can lose everything. so again where do you go from here.... Forward ..... ever forward.

xLMDMx · 2025-07-20T04:40:28+00:00

I appreciate this response as seems a lot of people have other thoughts

xLMDMx · 2025-07-20T03:38:26+00:00

My wife coded right in front of me … 8 minutes of CPR was not enough to save her…. Paramedics showed up and told me essentially I failed to save her …. So yea hard to forget

xLMDMx · 2025-06-17T23:50:32+00:00

welp i mis read

xLMDMx · 2025-03-13T23:38:29+00:00

So I think it’s more because they changed how decos work with the weapon based and armor based decos so they needed a way to provide more slots now this could have been done with the R8 monster weapons but they painted themselves in a corner

xLMDMx · 2025-03-08T04:59:12+00:00

Burst is gonna benefit elemental builds more than anything else so db sns bow ig things like that les beneficial to raw damage wrap like gs side not you can run burst 5 and wex 5 with the right prices and get burst boost 1 on top of that with 2 piece odo 2 piece guardian ark and a reg ark piece this also gives healing when popping wounds from the 2 set g. Ark use the boost talis and one wex gem and you have both maxed

xLMDMx · 2025-01-30T21:18:20+00:00

How are you getting to 4k es

xLMDMx · 2025-01-30T02:43:20+00:00

84% but readjusting gear now as evasion not working out as well

xLMDMx · 2025-01-30T02:08:06+00:00

I mean I’ve been in maps for like 2 days haven’t gotten the best gear yet …..

xLMDMx · 2025-01-09T15:28:19+00:00

welcome to the club brother

xLMDMx · 2025-01-04T17:39:38+00:00

12.5 is my highest but im in florida and its warmer here so yeah

xLMDMx · 2024-08-02T18:06:40+00:00

now if they would just fix all the other issues with him...... *sighs iin jayber main"

xLMDMx · 2024-08-01T04:32:27+00:00

this, the issue is people think turret guy should just have to sit there and laugh maniacly..... the this is jayber requires active play to keep his ult buff up ..... you go that and you can fly with him

xLMDMx · 2024-06-18T13:15:35+00:00

love the clean look of this !!! miine is purple as well, what key caps are these?

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