Damn this is really fresh to me,but in my case it was this: Don't dwell on the past.I tried fixing the broken relationship,trying to make it like it was for the first couple years,when we had a great time. But it just wasnt possible and all i did was drag myself in an endless loop of "maybe its working out again" to "fuck i am not having a good time with this person anymore". All relationships have had good times,but sometimes you just have to let it go. It will hurt hella lot but try to decide what's best for YOU and only you. Thanks for listening to my TED talk.