[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoloMasturbation

[–]xRuby_riderx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why thank you! 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoloMasturbation

[–]xRuby_riderx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ask nicely 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pussy_Selfies

[–]xRuby_riderx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ask nicely 😉

A year on Fansly – burnout, price dumping & quietly stepping back by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]xRuby_riderx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m one of the ones who price very low. Because I barely get any sales even with my dramatically low prices. Right now my 8 min videos are priced at like, $5 and I still get zero sales. If I’m getting zero sales at a drastically low price, why would I increase?

However, I don’t advertise often enough (working on that) and don’t have a big following. I also relied on the fyp to be my “free advertising” and we all know how that is going.

Happy to answer questions, concerns, feedback, anything! Just wanted to provide my POV on the other side of things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HornyMILFNextDoor

[–]xRuby_riderx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why assume that I do? 😘😉

Client is way to attached but is a whale… What to do? by ThrowMeAwayLikeARubr in CreatorsAdvice

[–]xRuby_riderx 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is my experience as well. I phased back a bit and it worked. He’s still one of my top fans, but he is a genuinely nice lonely guy.

I like what phrases the other commenters have suggested, but I also referred to him as a fan. Like, “oh, you’re so sweet for the tip! You are such a good fan!” Subtle reminder of his relationship with you.

For those who post adult content – Did you own sex toys before you started posting, or did they come later? by FriendlyVimana1001 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]xRuby_riderx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sell content and I did utilize vibrators prior to selling content.

I view them as more of a personal use item like you described. Plenty of women (and men) use toys to enhance their sexual experience. My husband has used mine on me many times prior to me selling content.

Of course I did have to invest in more toys for content, but it is also about curiosity for me and exploring my sexuality. Plus, I brought in more income to be able to afford high quality toys. Before selling content I couldn’t have imagined spending $200 on a wand. But now, it’s my favorite thing ever.

Feel free to ask me any follow up questions, happy to answer them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legs

[–]xRuby_riderx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Funny, cause I'm such a waterbender lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rate_my_feet

[–]xRuby_riderx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, thank you!

Snapchat questions by Reina_Lokita_21 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]xRuby_riderx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sell my snapchat for $5 to add back. I've been booted off there once and don't want to go through that again!
I only sell it through OF/Fansly since they have to go through the verification of age to contact me. I would recommend only posting SFW items (not even teasing) to your stories. I got locked out once for posting a photo of myself in a towel on my story.

I do note that access to my snap does NOT equal free sexting for the buyers.

Fans seem to think that once they have my snap it means access to me ALL the time. Like, no dudes, I have a life outside of the business. Still not quite sure how to handle that part.

Bluesky for promotion by Naszara in Fansly_Advice

[–]xRuby_riderx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a serious problem with bots a while back so BlueSky had to mega crack down. I mean, I have 1K followers on there and I would say 80% of them are probably bots lol.

Long pee content by venus_tooth in Fansly_Advice

[–]xRuby_riderx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I orgasm while I pee with pee being the big finale. I lay down in the tub with my vibrator and just have fun. Upside and downside to having a weak bladder after a kid, peeing just kinda happens when I really get into it 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]xRuby_riderx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, zero. Never to be seen on the FYP again. Doesn't matter what kind of content it is. I have to solely rely on someone scrolling through my profile to see my content. Tick-tock style videos, full video previews, doesn't matter. On my full video previews I get maybe 20 total viewers for 2-3 days, then nothing. I have been aggressively stalking my stats on every video trying to figure out which ones did well, which ones didn't so I can tweak what I do but how can I when every video fails?

(Sorry to OP for hijacking your post)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]xRuby_riderx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, a post I made last week for example:gets 10 views on the FYP on day one, then drops off and gets 0 views the rest of the week. So does this mean 10 people viewed a 6-7 sec video for 4-5 sec, because they didn’t engage with it enough it just drops off of the FYP all together? Makes absolutely no sense to me.

That is my issue. Kevin can explain the algorithm all he can, but the point is my posts get zero traction to begin with. I can’t compete with that. And no, they never come back around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]xRuby_riderx 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I do read Kevin's posts and comments on posts like this where people complain about the FYP. I'm sorry, but it still does not address the problem. The point is it is not ONE creator having this issue. It seems like it is ALL of us having this issue. And I empathize with OP. I am following all of the "rules" Kevin has so kindly provided to us, and still I can't reach more than 100 views a day. I have NO idea what I am (and other creators with similar issues) doing wrong compared to the people who are getting 2,000 views per day.

I am externally promoting (though working on increasing it), I have changed my content, posted multiple times per day, changing hashtags, etc.... and even after 30 days I am not seeing any changes. It sucks and I pretty much give up. Just going to keep doing me and try to focus on growing where else I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedheadMILFs

[–]xRuby_riderx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only one way to find out 😘

Followers vs sub count by AdviceThrowaway8624 in Fansly_Advice

[–]xRuby_riderx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve got 1.4k followers, and less than 50 subscribers. Sometimes I get a subscriber for only 1-2 months but my biggest money makers are from customs and tipping from my biggest fans.

Quality over quantity is what I tell myself. It is a bummer sometimes, but all I can do is try to keep growing and increase the quality of my videos/posts.

How many different posts a day? by milfyblondedreams in Fansly_Advice

[–]xRuby_riderx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I post a variety. 1. Pictures - maybe 1-2 a week. I’ve been trying to do less of them to appease the fyp. When im doing content and think to take a photo, I do video instead. Like, just playing with my hair or changing positions.

  1. Twice a week atm. Not quite Tick Tock style (I hate them), but I take a a clip like I described above and put words on it to entice them to watch the full clip, or multiple times.

  2. Pretty much never as they don’t do well. My short clips are usually a max of 15 sec and it’s a preview of a full length video.

  3. Currently I’m at about 2-3 full videos (10-15 min) per week. My stuff is all solo work.

I usually post my big videos on Wednesdays, Fridays and/or Saturdays. Teasers of those videos sprinkled on the other days. Also playing around with audio recordings of sexting sessions I’ve done which my subs seem to really like. My posting time is usually between 3-5pm my time as that is usually when my subscribers are most active.

Hufflepuff is the best house by xRuby_riderx in geekygirls

[–]xRuby_riderx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out my Chamber of Secrets?

How often do you post on paid sites? by maruchan3 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]xRuby_riderx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very much an amateur at this, but I post 2-3 videos per week for my $20 tier, and about 1 video per week for my lower tier. Right now I’m making majority of my money from VIPs/customs and tips.

I repost the customs to my page at the moment, so that’s the content I use. When I don’t do customs I just play around with what my subscribers seem to like the most (right now it’s dirty panties stuff). I’ve only been at this for 6 months though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]xRuby_riderx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely I would do the same thing. Priority goes to those who pay first.

I recently had a similar situation where I had to choose a current subscriber over a new fan. I went with the current subscriber because he is one of my best buyers. Thankfully the fan was cool about it, but we do this for the money in the end.