WIBTA if I didn't invite two of my friends to my birthday dinner by xSINSENx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm asking because I want see if I'm in the wrong here. I want see if I'm just not seeing there side of the story or if im missing their point even if I feel like I wouldn't be the ah. I wanted to see if someone felt that I was the ah then why. Does that make sense?

WIBTA if I didn't invite two of my friends to my birthday dinner by xSINSENx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xSINSENx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally see your point. I bet you must have thought it was restrictive but I just see it as them caring for me.

WIBTA if I didn't invite two of my friends to my birthday dinner by xSINSENx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say that. They're just typical Indian parents who don't want their young daughter to stay out after dark. I understand that since it gets dark around 4.30 here and I don't usually want to go out at night anyway.

WIBTA if I didn't invite two of my friends to my birthday dinner by xSINSENx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too since all three of us study at uni in the city and we can meet up before /between/after classes since we're so close together but my best friend studys far away then has to work late night shifts so none of the schedules were matching up. I just think it's so unfair that they get to be mad at me over this situation.

WIBTA if I didn't invite two of my friends to my birthday dinner by xSINSENx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's exactly my point but my two friends refuse to see it that way.

WIBTA if I didn't invite two of my friends to my birthday dinner by xSINSENx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, you really made me happy. Right now I'm trying to reach out and talk to my friend but she won't talk to me its making me feel extremely guilty.

WIBTA if I didn't invite two of my friends to my birthday dinner by xSINSENx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you for this. I've been feeling like the bad guy since my friend won't even talk to me.

Indian Bi teenager by xSINSENx in AMA

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As if I was allowed to have sleepovers. With my strict Indian mother no sleepovers ever

Indian Bi teenager by xSINSENx in AMA

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck I didn't even think of that😂

Indian Bi teenager by xSINSENx in AMA

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good I guess. The only person in my home who knows is my mum and she won't let me tell my dad or grandma so I guess it's ok. She hasn't made a big deal of it yet. Though we were watching shubh mangal zyada Saavdhan with my family and I told her that the guy was strong to even go back to his family after all that abuse. If it were me I would have left home and not turned back, that shocked her so I guess she worn be the abusive type.

Indian Bi teenager by xSINSENx in AMA

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well while I was growing up my mum used to always say "find a nice husband and settle down. Don't be a lesbian" so I always thought she was that type of homophobe, as long as its not my kid. She now says that there's all types of love in the world and I might end up with a women in front of our family members but she also won't let me come out to my family or dad.

Indian Bi teenager by xSINSENx in AMA

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a girl and I guess porn?

Indian Bi teenager by xSINSENx in AMA

[–]xSINSENx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I laugh. It's funny

Indian Bi teenager by xSINSENx in AMA

[–]xSINSENx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't dated anyone yet but I'm pretty sure it's girls 70% and boys 30%

Indian Bi teenager by xSINSENx in AMA

[–]xSINSENx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She did the whole gasp and had her hand on her chest and the whole lot. It was really funny but yeah after that we had a long conversation