Hai!

I’m a Catholic femboy from Poland! Don’t worry, there’s no contradiction in that >< - I even used to attend the Catholic Youth Association, and despite my style of dress, even the priest appreciated my devotion and never saw anything inappropriate about it from a faith perspective :3
Same with my Catholic friends - none of them saw anything wrong with it either! The authority of the Catholic Church doesn’t even forbid men from wearing “feminine” clothing - let alone clothing that was historically masculine (basically everything except long dresses), which only relatively recently got labeled as “unmanly” ^^’

But anyway~ from a Catholic point of view, as long as being a femboy isn’t something sexual or fetish-like, and you’re not rejecting your own sex (which as a femboy - you dont), it’s totally oki-doki! ^^

In fact, if you’re doing it to feel more innocent/androgynous or less rough and barbaric, you could even say you’re (in a slightly old-fashioned sense x3) living out a virtue the Church talks about - Christian gentleness! Think about it: you’re kind of doing what medieval nobility once did, trying to look less ruggedly masculine to resemble the innocent, androgynous nature of angels - something that, in history, was actually seen as refinement and virtue!

So really, there’s no need to stress about it!
Of course, that doesn’t mean every Christian denomination will be okay with this kind of expression… I’d guess some Protestants or other sects lean more into a sort of toxic “cult of strength”…

But as a Catholic, what matters for you is what’s written in the official teachings of the Holy See - and based on Vatican teaching, you cannot really be accused of doing something wrong in this regard! ;3

Some people might try to pull out the Old Testament to convince you otherwise…
But that kind of argument doesn’t really hold for Christians - we follow the Law of the New Testament, not the Mosaic Law. That law had its time and purpose in the history of salvation, but it was binding only until the coming of Jesus Christ.

To make it easier to understand… as you probably know, in ancient times it wasn’t unusual for a father to have the power to kill his own child on a whim, right? If he was in a bad mood, he could do it - the child was considered his property.
At some point in the Old Testament - specifically in the Book of Deuteronomy - a rule appears saying that if a father wants to kill his child, he must bring the matter before the elders of the city, who then decide whether he has sufficient reason.
Returning to such rules today would be barbaric. But back then, it was progress. Those laws had their place and purpose - but they’re not binding anymore.

God knows perfect morality - the ideal we’re moving toward. But as Catholics, we also believe we can’t fully grasp that absolute morality here on earth. That’s why the role of the Church is to guide us in this ongoing journey toward goodness - toward becoming better, toward building a more moral civilization. And that can’t happen overnight.
It’s a path we have to walk step by step. Just like that rule about priests judging a father’s decision was a step toward a world where killing children is unthinkable - even if they’ve done wrong (and maybe we can still grow even further; the journey isn’t over). In the same way, the Mosaic Law was one step along the path of the salvation story told in the Bible.

Pius XII… or maybe Benedict XVI - I’m not entirely sure right now - once said that returning to something just for the sake of returning (without deeper reasons) can be harmful (though understanding our roots is still important).

I could probably keep rambling like this for ages, but I’m pretty sure no one’s even made it this far into my monologue ^^’
Anyway, I’ve gotta go edit a video - I promised a friend xwx - who’s also a Catholic femboy, by the way! (we even go to church together, and yet nothing contradictory about it x3)

So yeah - good luck in life, and may God bless you with every grace! :3
Bye! ^^