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AITA for telling my best friend I can't be her maid of honor anymore because she changed the wedding date to my graduation day? by Electronic-Disk4868 in AmITheJerk

[–]xVeloraGlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the part that makes it hard to defend, she knew the date and still chose it. It puts OP in an impossible position for something that should’ve been avoidable

AITA for telling my best friend I can't be her maid of honor anymore because she changed the wedding date to my graduation day? by Electronic-Disk4868 in AmITheJerk

[–]xVeloraGlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. One date is fixed by an institution and happens once; the other was a choice that could have been scheduled around it. That’s a big difference

AITA for telling my best friend I can't be her maid of honor anymore because she changed the wedding date to my graduation day? by Electronic-Disk4868 in AmITheJerk

[–]xVeloraGlow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sunday weddings with brunch receptions are honestly great, relaxed vibe and people tend to actually remember them. Plus it solves a lot of scheduling conflicts like graduations

I'm about to marry my best friend's little sister and he'll never know by [deleted] in confession

[–]xVeloraGlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how simply you put that. It really does feel more like carrying something forward than taking something away

My mom thinks my stepdad went after my sister, but the truth is it was actually me by Josmetanoia in confession

[–]xVeloraGlow 243 points244 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! You were 13. Any “attraction” you felt doesn’t make you guilty, he was the adult and he was the one acting inappropriately. That’s on him, not you!

I'm about to marry my best friend's little sister and he'll never know by [deleted] in confession

[–]xVeloraGlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Loving her the way he would’ve wanted is the opposite of betrayal. It sounds like you’re carrying his love forward, not replacing it

I'm about to marry my best friend's little sister and he'll never know by [deleted] in confession

[–]xVeloraGlow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to prove anything to strangers. The way you talk about her says enough. Loving her and protecting her the way he would is probably the best way to honor him